Where To Find Girls, Part 1
April 13, 2009 by Joseph Matthews
Filed under Dating Tips
Let’s face it, meeting women is the best way to improve your love life. Particularly, single women.
After all – the more women you meet, the greater your chances of finding the right one.
But in order to maximize your success, you need to go to the right places to meet girls.
If you are just focusing all your time and effort on the bar and club scene, you are truly missing out.
Bars and clubs are probably the single, hardest venue to meet girls in that I know of. Mostly because you have a lot of obstacles to contend with there…
1. They’re loud. Typically, bars and clubs like to play very loud music which makes it hard to talk to people.
2. It’s expensive. Typically, after paying for parking, a cover, and a few drinks, you’re already $60 – $100 in the hole, and you haven’t even met a girl yet!
3. Increased Competition. Every guy in a bar or club is on the prowl to hook up with a girl, and you’ve got to content with them.
4. Protection Mechanisms. Women hardly ever go to bars or clubs alone (and if they do, they’re going to meet up with someone). This means that even if you hit it off with a girl, you usually have to content with her friends and hope they don’t pull her away at the last minute!
5. They’re unhealthy. Despite the fact that you usually have to stay up very late when you go to a bar or club, you also have to content with alcohol and cigarette smoke when you do. That’s not to say this is terribly bad, but over time, it can start to wear on you.
Don’t get the wrong impression. I’m not saying you should totally avoid going to clubs or bars to find women.
I’m just saying you should not LIMIT yourself to meeting new girls in just these places.
Here are two places you can go to meet women that don’t involve the bar scene:
1. Coffee Shops
Coffee Shops are amazing places to meet girls. The atmosphere is laid back and relaxed, and you’ll find lots of people like to hang out in coffee shops and read, study, or do work.
Not only that, but people can be very open in these venues. This makes it much easier to strike up a conversation.
So if you like coffee, and you’re looking to relax a little bit, be sure to hit up the coffee shops occasionally.
2. Book Stores
Book stores are in the same family as coffee shops (heck, nowadays, bookstores typically have coffee shops IN them!).
Lots of women go to book stores to sit around, read books, study, grab a bite to eat, unwind, and even shop for music or magazines.
Like coffee shops, the atmosphere is relaxed, and it’s usually much easier to meet women in these places than it is in a bar.
I have three more places to tell you about, in the next part of this article – keep reading!