What Guys Find Attractive – And Why Women Don’t Know
May 20, 2009 by Sheryl Ingwer
Filed under Dating Sites
There are two attributes of human nature that you need to realize if you want to attract a man. They are straightforward but imperative to understand. Firstly, we all enjoy having to work to achieve a goal.
They want to feel the fulfillment of having to work for something and then in the end achieve what they had set out to. Notice I said a little challenge. It doesnt mean ensure that he knows he doesnt have chance in the world.
This bit of info may be used when flirting. Get him to notice that you’re gazing at him–just once. Give him some telltale signs that you’re potentially interested. If he must guess and isn’t sure you’re really interested, you’ve already gained his attention; he will wish to find out more.
How is this different from the first thing I mentioned? Its actually the second step. Now that youve got his attention by flirting and having him wander if you are interested, when he comes over to talk to you, don’t give away how you feel in the way you speak or in your body language.Then next part of human nature which can be used is people always want what they can’t have.
Act as if you were expecting him to come over. If he mentions that he noticed you noticing him, simply say that it was you noticing that he was looking at you.You body language should be all about confidence and poise.
Keep the conversation short since the longer you keep talking the greater the chance you might give away the way you feel. Don’t act all snobbish and give him the cold shoulder. It takes guts to come up to a beautiful stranger and start talking to them!
However, if you incorporate the basic concept in your mannerisms and the way you flirt, I can guarantee heads will be turning.Now, following the above may not yield the results you may be looking for.
Ponder it, then, and give it a shot; there is nothing to lose by doing so.