Tips to Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back, Date Someone Else
June 10, 2009 by Ricardo d Argence
Filed under Dating Sites
To win back ex boyfriend, try dating someone else! Your first thought is that that doesn’t sound right! It sounds counter-intuitive and you’re flat out not going to do it! Right? Well what if it’s the right thing to do and by doing it you move yourself closer to getting back together with your ex boyfriend? Would you do it then?
Let me explain! When you’ve been dumped by someone you’re still in love with, instinctively your first thoughts are to chase after them and to beg and plead with them to take you back. It’s pretty much a mad panic on your part to get right back into the relationship before your ex boyfriend forgets about you and or meets someone else.
Well pretty much you need to understand that your ex boyfriend is not going to forget about you just because the two of you broke up. Plus if he still has strong feelings for you, just because he’s dating someone else it doesn’t mean there’s no way back for the two of you. So there’s really no need to panic!
Tell yourself it is a good thing to take a break from your ex boyfriend, because it is. It will help you find your perspective and help him find his. Take a real break. Do not contact your ex boyfriend for any reason. Give him time to think about things.
Once youve made the decision to take this time away from your ex boyfriend, itll get easier. The next step is to put on your best outfit, call up your friends and go out and have some fun. Focus on having a good time and dont fall prey to the temptation to call your ex.
Now if youre out there having a good time like youre supposed to be doing, you may just meet someone you think is nice. Think about whether hes someone you might be interested in dating, even just one date. Youre free to date, after all it was your ex boyfriends idea to break up. Go ahead and have some fun.
You dont have to be serious about the guy. You probably want to tell him you just want to have some fun with him and that youre not ready for anything serious. Tell him you like him and just want to get to know him.
You are not doing this to make your ex boyfriend jealous. Youre doing it to take your mind off of feeling bad and feeling sorry for yourself and putting your thoughts on a positive experience. The last thing you want to do is bring baggage into your good time.
Getting to know someone new may just make you realize you dont want to get back with your ex boyfriend anyway. The new guy might not be exactly right for you but he may have something your ex boyfriend didnt have that you might really think is important in a new relationship. Taking this break and dating someone else may be just what you need to do to win back your ex boyfriend.