Three Phrases That Will Take Your Pick-Up To Another Level
December 28, 2009 by Jonny Cruz
Filed under Free Dating
I have three phrases that I use to absorb a girl into my reality. These phrases have taken my game to another level in-field. Having some established phrases that are time tested under your belt can add some dynamic to your game.
My first choice would be “How Dare You!?” said in a mock-serious tone. This is great to use anytime an HB does anything outside of your frame. For example, say this HB takes a sip of your drink, touches you accidentally, or delivers a snide remark, simply look at her with exasperation and say, “How Dare You!?” Its a fun way to display value. They will usually follow it up with a laugh and intrigue. Making a woman aware of her innapropriate behavior is excellent for re-framing. Its a great way to bust her balls.
Another phrase I use that is excellent for building comfort is “OMG, me too! You’re starting to creep me out.” Finding commonalities with your target is pivotal when it comes to establishing comfort. I like to play a game in field where I tell a girl that we are going to say our favorite flick on the count of three. We say it at the same time to see if we hit a match. I do this with a couple of different scenarios, favorite television show growing up, favorite comedy movie, favorite musician, etc. it’s a fun game that makes finding common ground fun and interesting. Don’t fall into her reality when doing this. Be sure to know the answers to the questions you are going to ask her. Say the name of your favorite movie, and if hers is different, say “OMG, I love that movie too.” Then instantly give a reason why or an anecdote that will provide a solid reason for the commonality. What’s even more powerful is if you can get your target to say “OMG, ME TOO!” You can be sure you are creating attraction.
Lastly one of my favorite phrases to re-frame is, “I don’t believe you!” This is a clever device to use in field when getting any type of resistance from a girl. Say a girl says she doesn’t take her top off on the first date. Look at her with a slight smile and say, “I don’t believe you!” Usually you’ll get a look of surprise to challenge her in such a way. If she is defiant she might throw out, “I DON’T!” Simply laugh a little and say, “Look, you don’t even believe you!” This is powerful when it comes to re-framing. I have gotten out of falling into a girls reality with this nifty piece of word gold.
Enjoy these bits of verbal goodness and watch your game go to the next level -Jonny Cruz
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