The Perfect Valentine
November 6, 2009 by Jay Schultz
Filed under Dating Sites
Are you prepared for the most romantic holiday of the year?
Valentines days is the day that most men dread and most women love.
Fortunately, we have the answer for you:
From the ideal Valentine’s Day gifts to the ideal Valentine’s Day desserts, this guide will cover everything you need to know to have a wonderful time with the girl who said yes to your question, “Will you be my Valentine?”
Valentine’s Day can feel like a potential minefield, especially if you are in the very early stages of a relationship or going on a first date. This article will provide some advice on just how you can successfully navigate the challenges and have a perfect evening.
CHOOSING A MEMORABLE GIFT
Take your time and look for the right gift. Choosing the wrong gift can leave a lasting impression on the person you are dating or interested in.
If this is one of the very first dates, you don’t have to give her a gift. If you invite her out, you should pay for dinner and buy a nice bottle of wine or champagne if your budget allows it (and you choose to drink). If you still feel you must give her something, a small box of chocolates will be appreciated.
Pick out a gift that shows depth. Women know when a man chooses a gift that was not thought out. Being lazy is never a good thing, especially when it comes to Valentines day.
You should know where you are in your relationship and what type of personality the person your dating has. Valentines day is a way to use gifts to heighten romantic situations. Ask yourself the question, “Is this person fun and adventurous and would they enjoy a simple gift like flowers?” “Or is this person risque or wild, someone who would enjoy the fun not-quite-Victoria’s-Secret lingerie?” Knowing the person your with, helps when choosing the right gift to give. Think carefully and you will be rewarded for your well chosen gift.
Note: For those readers who are in a more serious relationship, the above gifts are fine as well, but only as a bonus, not the main gift. When it a long term situation, be sure to put some real thought and effort into getting something personal that you know your woman would appreciate.
THE DATE
Choosing the right gift was just the beginning. Now its time to plan your date. Take a moment to realize that women take longer to arouse than men. Start the date hours in advance by texting her enticing text messages, telling her that you are looking forward to seeing her tonight.
You are the exception to the rule. This is the Valentines day you are going to get right. Any guy out there can give flowers and chocolates, and plan a simple dinner. But you are not any guy. You are the guy that made all the right plans. Now you are going to be the guy with all the right moves.
Be creative. Do not be like every other guy. Instead of typical roses, buy her orchids. This is Valentines day, and you are the exception to the rule.
THE PERFECT DINNER
Valentines Day is the perfect holiday to bring women over to your house. Tell her that you have something romantic planned. Once she agrees, bring her over and take the romantic aspect of Valentine’s Day to a whole new level.
Cooking is one sure fire way to amp the overall attraction and enjoyment of the night. In choosing foods to serve for a Valentine’s Day celebration, keep in mind the textures, and the aromas of certain foods.
Gift, done. Date, in the bag. Meal that you cooked, easy. Now it’s time to take it to the next level by serving her dessert. Nothing makes a woman go crazy like a man who knows how to feed a woman sweets.
Chocolate bars, marshmallows and graham crackers! You can rarely go wrong with making S’mores in the microwave. Even better, cook them over a fire. They’re easy to make, taste great, and are just messy enough to provide finger licking opportunities.
Chocolates will stimulate a woman sexually, so use them wisely. The sexiest thing about chocolate is its taste and its unique melt-in-your-mouth quality. Try a bowl of strawberries and dipping chocolate. This will be amazingly fun and exciting. Make sure you have extra melted chocolate for finger painting. The body is a bare canvas.
TURN UP THE ROMANCE
After the meal, the time comes for your final surprises. Some of this stuff can be pretty intense – so unless you have been seeing each other a while, use these moves sparingly and wisely. You are about to blow her mind and make this a night she will never forget.
A classic way to turn up the romance is with a nice and simple body massage. A massage is one of the best ways to make a person more comfortable and ignite the romantic vibes.
Take time before Valentines Day to plan ahead. A well planned out Valentines Day will be remembered for a long time.
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