Are Girls Naturally Attracted to Funny Men?
November 3, 2009 by Maxwell Durden
Filed under Dating Sites
To the casual observer, it looks very obvious that women are genetically wired to be attracted to men with a sense of humor. Still, this is only part of the actual truth that appears to elude all but the most clever men.
Humor alone is not enough to make women attracted to you. What you need to truly attract more women is a combination of humor and seduction — commonly referred to as “flirting.”
So, what’s the big deal with flirting, anyway?
Never forget that flirting is the be-all and end-all of your interaction with a women. Without flirting, you are lost. I’ll come back to that in a bit, but first allow me to explain why just being a funny guy isn’t enough to attract women. At least, not in the way that you want to attract them.
Sure, a woman may enjoy a good sense of humor, but that doesn’t mean that she is feeling any closer to the funny guy. If you make a women laugh outside of the context of flirting, then you will just make her your friend.
If you come on too strong with a woman, the opposite will happen. Instead of her considering you as a warm, gentle, friend, she will think you are some sort of stalker that she should stay away from. To make a girl feel comfortable and receptive to your seduction techniques, you have to integrate humor at the same time.
This is where it gets hard for most men. You have to learn to make it obvious that you are interested in a woman in a romantic or physical way without scaring her off. It definitely takes practice, but it is something that can be mastered by any man. And you know what? Learning how to do this is a lot of fun!
Don’t make the mistake that many guys do by becoming a clown or a buffoon. This may get laughs from a woman, but it will not make her feel any sort of romantic connection with you. To make this romantic connection a reality, you always must get the balance right.
Women are attracted to masters of flirting, not clowns.
If you learn just a single thing from this article, I hope that it’s this: instead of trying to figure out how to make women laugh, learn how to make women comfortable, entertained, and attracted. That’s how you achieve true success with women.
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