The ABC’s Of Seducing Girls, Part 2

In part one I mentioned a sort of ‘tension’. What is it, and what does it have to do with seduction? Keep on reading below!

Overall, the process of seduction is about amplifying the feelings you’ve created. Desire and arousal are what you are going for, and if you can really provoke these emotions in her, you’ll have her wanting to release this tension.

So I create this tension in a woman, but how?

Well, there are various methods on how to do this. A lot of them are quite advanced (and very effective), but for the purposes of this article, I’m going to keep things simple.

The first thing you must do in seduction is to lay the groundwork for tension. This comes in the form of “playful teasing.”

Think of how you would tease a friend or a sibling. It would be good-natured teasing, am I right? But in this situation, we want to add a sexual element to the equation.

So for instance, if you’re with a girl on a date, and you order a drink, you could say “So if I have a few drinks, you’re not going to take advantage of me and just use me for getting some, are you?”

This is a fun and playful way of teasing the girl about wanting to sleep with you, WITHOUT coming off as creepy or blatant.

It’s important to do, too. We want the woman thinking about hopping in the sack. Because once you get her thinking about it, she’ll wonder what it is like to sleep with you!

Once you begin, however, be cautious about going overboard. Just throw the innuendos out every so often.

When you get past that stage, try touching her in an effort to amp up the physical tension between you two. Note I said touch, not grope.

So touching her on her hand, her wrist, her leg, thigh, lower back, and elbow can go a long way to establishing those feelings of connection. You can do this at any point while talking to her. You can even try and get closer to her while you are talking. Proximity is important as well.

Now its time to amp up your body language. Let her know, with your eyes, that you’re feeling attraction for her – but never say it and keep playing coy.

This is called sending “mixed signals.” She thinks you’re into her, but there is a measure of doubt, which really amps up the tension. Before long, she’ll want to find out for sure if you’re into her or not.

Next, it’s time to move towards more obvious forms of of discussion. Begin asking her about her fantasies. Try to figure out what turns her on. Keep teasing her and touching her as she talks about what she enjoys.

Finally, it’s time to get physical. At some point, you’re going to have to make your move, because the physical sensation of kissing and being petted will really start to amp up those feelings of desire she’s experiencing.

From there, you must take it upon yourself to lead her towards doing what you want. For instance, taking her by the hand and pulling her towards the bedroom.

Keep this in my because you don’t want to be left with just kissing. And she shouldn’t have to push YOU towards the bedroom. So cowboy up and do it yourself!

Do all the above things I mentioned, and any woman that you meet can be seduced.