5 Ultimate Dating Tips for Men
September 11, 2009 by Gary Gerrald
Filed under Dating Sites
Veering away from the usual awkward phrases and communication gaps, men can easily acquire the right traits to become a dating expert. Sadly, a lot of men fall victim to the humdrum of single life.
A lot of men lack confidence and think they are missing out because they don’t look like a celebrity. It’s a lot more important to be the best you and not the best somebody else you can be.
The five tips we are providing are intended to coach you in the dating game. They’ll improve you approach and help you get that important first date, and if you practice, they’ ll help you get a second date and then you’ll be on your way.
Study the tips and implement then in your dating strategy.
1. Good grooming is an essential part of attraction. Do you want to date a woman who doesn’t wear make up or comb her hair? Before you approach a woman for a date, make sure your hair is neatly styled, your face is clean shaven, or if you have facial hair, that it is neatly trimmed. Clean your fingernails please. Clean neat clothing is an asset.
2. Your mama taught you good manners, use them. Treat the lady with respect and be on your best behavior. No one appreciates rudeness. Watch your language. Vulgarity is a sign of disrespect and it reflects poorly on you. Women like to be treated like ladies.
3. Be on time. It is rude to be late for a date. If you are unavoidably detained, be sure you call your date and let her know why you are running late. Never break a date at the last minute. Showing up on time and properly dressed shows respect for your date and yourself.
4. Don’t get distracted or lose interest in what your date is saying. Don’t be afraid to get the conversational ball rolling. You can talk about politics, current events, the whether or who is playing in Sunday’s game. Choose a subject that will get your date into the conversation.
5. The best way to make yourself irresistible, is to make your date feel irresistible. Let her know how attractive you find her. Compliment her on her good taste, her intelligence, her grace. Avoid any overtly sexual remarks, as they may make her uncomfortable and will certainly sound self serving on your part. If you pressure your date, you won’t see her again.
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The Mystery Method: Seduce Women With Ease
May 14, 2009 by Alex Smoke
Filed under Dating Sites
The Mystery Method is based on the fact that humans tend to get captivated by those enjoying better privileges. For instance, most men would normally get their attention mainly directed towards beautiful girls. On the other hand, girls would instinctively head towards those self-confident and brave men. Such feelings and tendencies somehow have something to do with the chemistry of our brains. Furthermore, this is what makes a boy or a girl feel uncomfortable and nervous in the presence of their partners. You would find that a strikingly beautiful young lady would definitely stir such feelings. This is what makes her believe that when a guy ignores or bust her, she is not good enough for him and that he must be superior to her; so she would as a result get interested in him.
The different ways explained to you are considered successful ideas with which you can define the word superior. For instance, discreetly, let her know between the lines about your solid family roots. Do not show any interest in he girl before you. The methods introduced here are all applied in M3 Model.
M3 Model The Mystery Model consists of three main parts: interest, ease and allure. The three key sections are again split into three different stages. The technique used gets you to find out more about the various ways and plans that will help you to eventually reach your target.
Rule#1: Interest & Attract Her What we need to acquire from this stage is to begin a light talk with the girl. Make your girl get implicit hints about your high standards of living first to gain her trust and second to grab her attention. This should give her the idea that her outer beauty is not the only thing pulling you towards her. Remember that you can grab the attention of absolutely all women with some simple tricks like the following ones:
1. If other girls are interested in you, this should make the girl you like or admire fall for you. 2. Having the full control and power of a guide. 3. Making her feel secured 4. Being ready to leave any time 5. not playing safe 6. Proper physical appearance
As mentioned in the previous tricks, we have stated two significant factors which are: not playing safe and Being ready to leave any time. Also, there are signs showing whether she is attracted to you or not; such as grooming her mane or acting nervous. Numerous articles tagged with Mystery Method at our site are related to: social intelligence, wit, prosperity, conditions, self-assurance, acting as a dare and having yourself chosen.
Rule#2: Ease During the ease stage, a man would tend to build a friendly atmosphere, reliance and bonding between him and the girl. Play with ease is a rule belonging to the Mystery Method. Remember that such a stage is the most significant one that consumes a lot of time to work out. Taking Mystery Method as our reliable source here, we would find out that in order to make a solid physical intimacy relationship between a man and a woman, it takes from four to ten hours which can be successfully reached through the stage of ease.
Rule#3: Seduction Seduction is considered to be the development of relationships when taken to the physical level. This is when a man has to handle his new girl regarding sex. Mystery Method has tackled the concept of Last Minute Resistance which shows how a man yields to his womans wish to wait and back off. He then would switch into doing any other activity such as playing some sport or just having fun.
Teasing And Busting
Furthermore, Mystery Method handles the idea of teasing your would-be girl. This almost shows what the technique is based on. Now the following line shows that notion in its best form:
-Nice hair color, is it a dye? It looks cute in any case.
The teasing technique aims at lowering the worth and importance of the girl. Just do not confuse teasing with offence as it is only a way to tell your would-be girl that you are not that intimated by her beauty. Strauss has stated in a TV show that most men tend to intentionally disregard girls as a way to attract them. Yet, because some girls would not even be interested to know that he thinks of her, they would just believe men are not into them. That is why teasing and busting method should be discreetly and positively used in order to reach your aim.
When we come to check out the Mystery Method, we would find out that such a technique is never offensive to the girl but it focuses more on the man and how much he wants that girl. Girls who enjoy striking beauty and looks believe that men would fancy them only because of their outer charm. However, teasing and busting a woman would make her believe that not all men are really that interested in her anyway however amazing her looks were. You know that such a method is a success when a girl starts to experience nervousness and low self-esteem.
Furthermore, you can always tease and bust a girl without any words said. For instance, you can make use of gestures or signs to make her feel it; such as walking away, starting a conversation with another person available or even acting as if you were waiting for a friend and not interested in your conversation with her anymore. Disregarding your would-be girl
This is just an advanced version of the teasing and busting technique. It is all psychologically based on the girls nature of winning whatever is hard to get. By playing this little sport with your would-be girl, you would definitely win over when the girl is misled and thinking that the man is not interested anymore. Moreover, you should never forget the fact that a man in a relationship is a challenge for any girl.
How to disregard a girl: – Sorry but what is that thing stuck between your teeth? – If you were a little skinnier, I might give it a shot for you.
Cocky & Funny Method
May 12, 2009 by Alex Smoke
Filed under Dating Sites
The “cocky & funny” method of talking to a woman focuses more on acting witty with words. There are people who strongly believe in this technique yet what makes it one of the best is the fact that being witty is not as easy as it might seem. To be able to find the right words at the right time is a difficult task, but to act a bit arrogant is a completely different matter that requires implications, puns and refinement and that what makes it hard.
Notice that girls can easily get convinced of someone who cracks jokes while grown-up women might not act the same way. Girls tend to get attracted more to the funny type of men with catchy words while women or ladies would prefer a man who
would talk their minds into sense and wisdom rather than fun and laughter.
Just remember that the “cocky & funny” method can be used with ladies as well, yet you should then modify it to a great extent in order to get it right. You should be able to find the right place, occasion and time to use it. That is why this particular technique should be used only by those who knows much about peoples different personalities and how to deal with them.
Like we said in the previous lines, the arrogant and musing technique should not be used by anyone because some men do not have that light humor in their nature. In order to master that method, it requires much labor and time and it is not that easy to use as you always have to get to know what type of girl is in front of you before you decide to adopt that way.
The following lines should show you how to use the “Cocky & Funny” technique:
Remember that acting arrogant (being “cocky”) should have extents to control it. In case you over do it, the girl might believe you are being rude and in case you act a little humble, she might start thinking that youre not that self-confident. You should detect that very light connection between both cases in order to reach your target. Some men make use of jokes in order to break the stiffness of arrogance. Yet again, acting funny is not a must for that method to work out.
Just keep in mind that the moment you proceed with that technique, you should never back off, that if you want to have the upper hand forever. Do not release whatever power or authority you have gained with a girl as it would be quite hard for you to get them back once lost. Girls can play this part more than you think they can, so you should never give them the chance.
Think of it that way; keep daring her for more in every statement you say. For instance, when you two start talking, you should always have the full authority over the occasion. You can always use lines like, you know you look beautiful yet Ive always been out with younger girls. Or God, your outfit looks nice for a girl. What is meant by such lines is to dare the girl in front of you even more NOT flatter her.
She then might start asking question such as; do you mean my outfit is good or what? again do not be direct in your answer. You can respond hmm, probably. I think I can decide that by the end of the night. Just get her confused for the longest period of time. She then might ask you about your job. You should then be implicit once more and say well, my job focuses on what girls like you wear instead of saying Im a fashion designer.
Remember that your answers should be implicit but your questions can be as explicit as you wish. For instance, you can ask whats your job? in case she arrogantly answers well, I work as an assistant manager at the biggest telecommunication incorporation in town. You can then say thats okay but what are you planning to do when youre a grown-up woman? Just ask this in a humorless tone. Make sure it does not sound like a comic thing so she would not think youre being too rude.
Again, in case she starts to say something common or ordinary, do not make fun of her as he might get angry then. For instance, in case she explains that she works as a temporary secretary till she finishes college, do not mock her because she may feel hurt then.
The “cocky & funny” method seems to be difficult as it takes a lot of effort to master. Hence, I believe that you can find the most suitable way to attract a woman in case you have a humorous type of personality.






