Tricks and Techniques in Understanding A Woman’s Body Language
March 10, 2010 by George Andrews
Filed under Free Dating
When you go on a night out with your buddies – it could be that you are simply out to have a good time. But if you are single and the situation presents itself that there’s a possibility for you to hook up with a beautiful woman, why pass up the chance? Another scenario is when it is your specific purpose to meet members of the opposite sex and perhaps get an invitation by the end of the night. No matter which of these categories you fall under, there are certain skills that you need to learn so that you can unleash the Casanova in you.
Check out the latest clubs and bars. This is precisely where women go to hand out with their girl friends, meet men and simply have a good time. This is a good a place as any to discover the inner Lothario or Casanova in you – and practice your dating skills. If you feel like you have yet to master the art of reading the most subtle hints which will tell you if a woman is interested in you or not – then it is high time to harness your body language reading skills.
Since we are talking about harnessing your dating skills here, the one thing that you need to watch out for are the non-verbal clues as to whether she is interested in you or not. It’s time to ditch those cheesy pick-up lines and look for ways to be really interesting and leave a lasting impression.
Once you have your eyes on your target, you can use your dating skills and practicing your charm. There is no worse scenario than having a woman walk out on you once you approach her – probably because of how you appear or what you said. This is precisely the reason why you need to learn about dating psychology 101 – which is all about understanding her body language.
Casanova Tactics on How to Understand Her Body Language
If you would like to bring out the Casanova in you and learn how to actually understand a woman’s language, there are non-verbal cues that you need to look for. More often than not, women use subtle cues to lure men into their ‘trap’ – which pretty much means that they are interested. To help you out, here is a quick list of some non-verbal cues that Casanovas like you need to watch out for:
Leaning over – “It’s okay for you to talk to me”. When a woman leans over you when she is trying to make a point or when listening to what you have to say – especially if it is not that crowded in the bar – it means that she is comfortable enough for you to prolong the conversation. This is the time that you can use your Casanova skills and charm the heck out of her.
She establishes eye contact. Another sign that you have managed to capture a woman’s attention is when she establishes eye contact and holds your gaze for more than five seconds. That is a sure sign that she would agree to dating you – and if you are lucky enough – she might even invite you to her place by the end of the night.
Combined body language and subtle hints – “You can invite me for a nightcap.” Some men are simply lucky in this department. If she flirts with you right back, initiates physical contact and reacts positively to your verbal and physical overtures, then that is a sign that she is thinking along the lines of tangling the sheets with you.
So what are you waiting for? If you feel that you have used enough of your Casanova charm and dating skills to get her to agree and go out with you or go home with you by the end of the night – there is absolutely no reason why you should say no to the invitation, is there? Just remember to pick up on her subtle hints, listen attentively to what her actions and words are trying to say – and you should be all set in mastering the art of reading a woman’s body language. After that, you can either ask her to go out with you sometime, or expect her to say yes to your invitation for a nightcap.
George Andrews has written a host of relationship and dating articles in the past. Learn how to treat women right and make them feel wanted by accessing the George Andrews’s free downloadable e-books which you can get through his website right now!
A Cool Place To Meet Women Most Guys Overlook
December 27, 2009 by Bruce Elwin
Filed under Free Dating
I just discovered the best place to meet women and there was practically zero competition. I’m sure by now you have figured out that a sexy woman is not just going to magically appear in your life. The job of meeting her and attracting her is 100% in your hands. The best part about this little idea is that it will also help you become a more social person and meet even more attractive women.
I recently took an improv comedy class and I was blown away by the amount of cute women that go to these things. The classes are a great place for making friends and there is little pressure because everyone is there to learn how to be a better communicator and have fun. It’s a great environment for starting up conversations with the women you meet there.
I found the women there were bubbly, interesting and just just a tad bit crazy. (in a fun way). And the fact that you are the kind of guy who gets out of the house and betters his situation really shows women that you are different than the average Joe. You are pursuing interests and enjoying yourself. This is very attractive to women.
Improv teaches you how to be spontaneous, have a better sense of humor and tell good stories. Story-telling and humor set off women’s attraction wiring like a handful of firecrackers. This is a fact. Where else can you meet women and at the same time polish up your social skills? The answer is nowhere!
The classes are almost always free to try out so there is no reason you shouldn’t give it a shot. Who knows, you just might meet an awesome women to practice your new improv skills with. Nowhere else will you find such a fun environment with little pressure and zero competition.
For more tips on attraction, women and dating, check out Bruce’s free crash course attraction video or you can read more attract women articles at the Real World Attraction blog.
3 Traits That Will Attract Women To You Like a Magnet
December 25, 2009 by Bruce Elwin
Filed under Free Dating
Have you ever made a woman cringe? I know I have. Before I studied attraction like a science I had many experiences where my attraction destroying habits literally made a woman make a terrible face and pull away from me entirely. And there’s probably nothing more painful than that look. But it was worth it for me. Because I dug deep and searched out answers within myself and from every resource I could think of to get this whole “women and dating” thing down. I wanted to know what caused that horrible face and never do the things that created it again. I learned a few valuable things in my journey. Here are 3 things you need to know immediately:
1. Learn how to tease women properly. I’m talking about being able to playfully joke with a woman, not be a jerk. The secret is to get her laughing and simultaneously make her wonder whether she has a shot of being with you. It’s about sending her mixed messages while maintaining a fun sense of humor with her. This sort of thing is definitely an art in itself but something you must understand fully.
2. You have to fully understand the Art of Flirting. We as men are not naturally good at flirting. We like straight-forward talk and prefer to communicate like this with everyone we meet. But if you can’t sub-communicate with women in a flirty way then its like you are going to be talking to a brick wall. She will squeak out yes or no answers to your questions and the interaction will go nowhere. The world of attraction lies in her emotions and something you cannot speak directly to. It takes learning a new language. The language of attraction. Also known as flirting.
3. You have to learn how to create the emotion of sexual tension. If you cannot create the emotion of sexual tension with a woman, she won’t care to get to know you beyond just a friend. Sexual tension is created by something I refer to as “perceived roadblocks” that you create and tear down at the right times. This strategy creates a rollercoaster-like series of emotions inside a woman and she will be uncontrollably attracted to you.
These are 3 big characteristics of guys who are naturally good with women. It’s what separates you from the men who bore her and the men who she can’t stop thinking about.
If you want to learn more about how to attract women then check out the free crash course video as well as the Real World Attraction blog
How To Seduce Any Woman, Part 1
April 4, 2009 by Joseph Matthews
Filed under Dating Tips
If any thing, there is a SINGLE reason why men choose to improve their social skills.
It might not be politically correct, but I like to deal in facts, so even though I might offend a few feminists out there by revealing this, here goes nothing…
Almost all men get into learning about seduction so they can bed more girls!
There, I said it.
Now, that’s not to say that guys don’t want things OTHER than getting it on! By and large, lots of guys are look for girlfriends and wives, and genuinely want to settle down.
But initially, getting it on more is the motivating factor.
And seduction is the process by which a man goes about getting a piece. If you can’t seduce a woman, you can’t get her to sleep with you. It’s as simple as that.
As luck would have it, the process of seducing has a methodology to it. Applied correctly, it can produce good results again and again.
However, this process is long, and can take some time. It encompasses everything from meeting the girl, to dating her, to attracting her, and finally, getting her into bed.
The problem is with the closing for most guys. The actual seduction – where you close the deal, can be difficult because men often blow it before that happens. They can meet and get the dates, but this last part stymies many men.
In situations like this, you need to be building the seduction from the get-go, so you’re not suddenly trying to switch gears once date number one is coming to a close.
Real seduction is all about building up and sustaining PHYSICAL TENSION.
“What is this tension?” you may ask?
Well, simply put, physical tension is all amping up feelings of arousal, without letting them be satisfied.
Guys experience physical tension ALL THE TIME. All they need to do is see a pretty girl and start talking to her, and those feelings of arousal can barely be contained.
The trick in seduction is to make the woman feel the same way!
Because eventually, the woman is going to want to satisfy those desires – and we all know there is only one way to do that.
And in part 2 of this article, I’ll show you exactly how to make this happen all the time!
The ABC’s Of Seducing Girls, Part 2
March 31, 2009 by Joseph Matthews
Filed under Dating Tips
In part one I mentioned a sort of ‘tension’. What is it, and what does it have to do with seduction? Keep on reading below!
Overall, the process of seduction is about amplifying the feelings you’ve created. Desire and arousal are what you are going for, and if you can really provoke these emotions in her, you’ll have her wanting to release this tension.
So I create this tension in a woman, but how?
Well, there are various methods on how to do this. A lot of them are quite advanced (and very effective), but for the purposes of this article, I’m going to keep things simple.
The first thing you must do in seduction is to lay the groundwork for tension. This comes in the form of “playful teasing.”
Think of how you would tease a friend or a sibling. It would be good-natured teasing, am I right? But in this situation, we want to add a sexual element to the equation.
So for instance, if you’re with a girl on a date, and you order a drink, you could say “So if I have a few drinks, you’re not going to take advantage of me and just use me for getting some, are you?”
This is a fun and playful way of teasing the girl about wanting to sleep with you, WITHOUT coming off as creepy or blatant.
It’s important to do, too. We want the woman thinking about hopping in the sack. Because once you get her thinking about it, she’ll wonder what it is like to sleep with you!
Once you begin, however, be cautious about going overboard. Just throw the innuendos out every so often.
When you get past that stage, try touching her in an effort to amp up the physical tension between you two. Note I said touch, not grope.
So touching her on her hand, her wrist, her leg, thigh, lower back, and elbow can go a long way to establishing those feelings of connection. You can do this at any point while talking to her. You can even try and get closer to her while you are talking. Proximity is important as well.
Now its time to amp up your body language. Let her know, with your eyes, that you’re feeling attraction for her – but never say it and keep playing coy.
This is called sending “mixed signals.” She thinks you’re into her, but there is a measure of doubt, which really amps up the tension. Before long, she’ll want to find out for sure if you’re into her or not.
Next, it’s time to move towards more obvious forms of of discussion. Begin asking her about her fantasies. Try to figure out what turns her on. Keep teasing her and touching her as she talks about what she enjoys.
Finally, it’s time to get physical. At some point, you’re going to have to make your move, because the physical sensation of kissing and being petted will really start to amp up those feelings of desire she’s experiencing.
From there, you must take it upon yourself to lead her towards doing what you want. For instance, taking her by the hand and pulling her towards the bedroom.
Keep this in my because you don’t want to be left with just kissing. And she shouldn’t have to push YOU towards the bedroom. So cowboy up and do it yourself!
Do all the above things I mentioned, and any woman that you meet can be seduced.






