Customs For Russian Brides To Know
June 17, 2010 by Lera Cupidonova
Filed under Free Dating
Wedding ceremonies are different in every country you visit. The customs in Egypt won’t be the same as the ones in China. This is an accepted truth no matter where you go so it is easy to understand why some people may want to learn how things may be different for them. Here are some customs Russian brides need to know for traditions sake.
The wedding celebration in a traditional Russian wedding often lasts for at least two days. In some cases it can stretch on for even longer. There is no best man or maid of honor. These people are simply known as witnesses, or in Russian “svideteli”.
Some things in traditional Russian marriages are the same as in American ones. One of these things is the time it takes to put the wedding together. A Russian wedding can take between one and six months. The marriage registration takes place in a “Zags” as opposed to our American courthouses.
As a symbol for hopeful longevity, health, and prosperity the new couple is given gifts of bread and salt. These are more than just food. They are the one of the ways for the older generation to bless the new couple.
This bread is even more important to the couple itself. Besides the blessings of their parents the bread is also a symbol of power and sharing. They each take a bite of this bread and whoever has taken the biggest bite is assumed to be the head of the family. This is a visual prop to allow them to see the give and take of marriage.
Toasts are an important part of American marriages. They are tools in which individuals who are close to the couple can share. In traditional Russian weddings this is no different. The speaker stands and once they are finished everyone takes a drink and cheers.
There are many wedding traditions that require breaking or smashing glass. Russian traditions are no different. When a toast is complete it is expected for the drinkers to throw their glasses on the ground. If they break completely when they land this is believed to be good luck. If blood is drawn, however, the couple could be in for a bumpy road.
One of the most interesting customs in a traditional Russian wedding is known as Krazha Nevesty. This means “stealing the bride” and it is exactly as it sounds. That’s right; if the groom fails to watch his bride closely he may just end up without a wife.
The groom will have to keep a sharp eye out during his wedding celebrations. Friends and family members will more than likely try to set up lavish plans in order to steal his bride. If she’s stolen he will have to pay a ransom to get her back.
Being one of these Russian brides can be just as nerve wrecking as being any other kind of bride. There are tons of things you have to remember, all the while taking one of the biggest steps towards your future. Still, it’s important to remember that on your wedding day you’re supposed to be happy. Smile, you’re getting married!
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Three Things You Should Never Do Before Meeting Your Foreign Fiance.
May 15, 2009 by Art Saborio
Filed under Dating Sites
[I:http://www.tellh.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/ArtSaborio0.jpg] With everything in life, there are some Dos and Don’ts before proceeding with a K1 Fiance Visa. Although things can seem simple, complications may arise. Looking at it from the 20,000 foot level, you find a girl online, meet her and then get married. Yet I can tell you from experience it is not that simple. Even if you have already found someone and dating, these simple “Dos and Don’ts” will help you succeed.
Here are three critical things you never want to do
1) Free dating websites… there are many of them, do not use them. 99% of the women on these websites are not real. Photos are never real and you will find that most women will try to take money from you. If you are dating and talking to a woman from a free website, use caution. Give the relationship at least a few months before moving forward with the relationship. Send flowers to her home address. Have the flower agency take a picture of her to ensure you are talking to a real person. Usually when flowers are sent, you rarely ever hear back from her.
2) Don’t send money to anyone you have not met. If you are being asked for money, 99% of the time this person is not real. She did not need your money before you came along and she does not need it now. Just say “NO” to money requests. If she does not understand, then it is time to move on to someone new. She is not worth your time. Ignore the depressing sob story she may tell you. Stop communicating with her and move on to someone new.
3) Keep your personal information private. Identity theft is just as big of a business abroad as it is here. The more information you give out, the easier it is for her to steal your identity. Don’t give it out. You need to be comfortable with her before any conversation of this nature can be discussed. Entertain this type of conversation only after you have met her.
Do these three things when searching or dating your foreign fiance.
1) Ask lots and lots of questions. Ask her about her life. What does she like in life? What are her dislikes. Are you compatible? The only way to know is to ask the hard questions. Don’t be blinded by the beauty of the picture. If you are not compatible beauty will not keep a marriage together.
2) Meet your potential fiance more than once. Although the K1 Fiance Visa process only mandates meeting once, I don’t recommend it. Do your relationship a favor and meet a minimum of three times. It takes time to build a relationship. You need that face to face interaction to build a strong bond.
3) Do save all your trip information as proof of your relationship. Also save phone call logs, emails and anything else you can save to show proof of the relationship.
When finding or dating a woman from abroad, these are the first “Dos and Don’ts”. Do these few simple things before starting the K1 Fiance Visa Process. Your relationship will be stronger and more stable for it.






