How To Persuade Your Ex To Come Back To You

Your girlfriend has just broken up with you for something that you have done. You are single once more. But you still want her back and you will do almost anything to get on her good side to try to win back her affection.

How then do you get your girlfriend to get back with you? She must have had a good reason to finish with you in the first place.

Here are a few tips that you could follow to help you to do this.

1. Forget your ego and apologize for what went wrong. Accepting the blame for the break up shows that you are serious about your relationship.

Even if it is not totally your fault that you split up it can be a very good idea for you to take at least some responsibility for it. Your ego may tell you otherwise but do you really want to lose her because of your inflated ego?

2. The worst thing you can do after a break up is to sit around all day and feel sorry for your self. You need a kick start and have to go out and enjoy your self again even if this is only temporary.

Being dumped by your girlfriend is not the best experience that you will ever have. By being fun to be around you can show her what you are really like and maybe have a chance of reconciliation.

3. There is no use pleading and begging your girlfriend to take you back because this hardly ever works. You must try some female psychology tricks in order to win her back.

Using the art of psychology can sometimes be a powerful weapon in getting your girlfriend to want you back.

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Dealing With Your Man’s Bad Hairstyle

Some guys have almost everything that a girl could want – a great body, a nice personality, and a handsome look. Yet some of these guys still have problems in one area – hair. You might love everything about your guy, but if his hair is a turn-off, it can cause big problems.

If you find yourself with a guy like this, you’ll have to tread carefully if you plan on telling him that he needs to change his haircut. Guys can be very sensitive about their hair, and just coming out and saying that a guy’s hair is ugly is sure to put a damper on the relationship. Here are some tactful ways to improve your guy’s hairstyle, no matter what he has on top of his head.

Hair Loss – This is probably the most common hair problem that men face. Thinning hair just isn’t attractive to many women, so men invest millions of dollars every year in treatments such as pills, lotions, and prescription drugs.

If your guy is losing his hair, don’t bother pointing it out to him – it’s a given that he already knows and is self-conscious about it. If his hair loss is an issue for you, there really isn’t much you can do about it. His hair will most likely continue to fall out as he ages, so if it’s a big problem for you, you should consider moving on to a different relationship if you can’t accept it.

Just Got Out of Bed Look: If your man’s hair looks disheveled every time you see him, there are two possibilities: he either doesn’t know any better or he’s doing it on purpose. Some guys can pull off this look, but on most guys trying it will just look unkempt. If your guy can’t make it work, let him know gently that it isn’t working for him.

The Frizz – While guys have shorter hair in general, we still have a lot of the same problems that women do. It’s also harder to convince us that it’s worth spending time and money to fix the messes on our heads.

If you’re dating a metrosexual guy he’s probably aware of the usefulness of hair products; otherwise, you may have to teach him about these products yourself. You can casually mention that a little gel could help straighten out his look, and show him how to choose one specifically designed to tame his frizzy hair.

The Shaved Look – Some guys choose to shave their heads because of their thinning hair, while others just think it looks cool. If your man doesn’t look good with a buzz-cut or a totally shaved head, try suggesting that he should grow it out a little.

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Pick Up Women – Don’t Blow Your Chance

One of the common ways men blow their chances with women is through negative self talk.

How do you see yourself?

How do you speak to yourself?

And what are you saying?

In other words due to a lack of self confidence many guys are creating barriers to success. This negative self talk causes you to be insecure and not confident. Women are not attracted to these qualities.

Instead you must be the man! You must tell yourself that you posses every quality that a good woman is looking for. Furthermore you don’t need a woman that doesn’t see this.

I can not stress this enough, by talking positively to yourself and about yourself it is a matter of time before you believe it. Just like every one around you already thinks how great of a person you are!

You just have to work or displaying these qualities to women. You are not uncommon. Very, very, very few men can actually attract women the way they want.

Even professional athletes, rich men, movie stars, … these guys can still sleep with a lot of women, however they are often not women that you would want to sleep with once you got to know them.

If you need to, it can help to create a list of positive qualities about yourself. Recite it and compliment yourself.

When you look good for work or school and tell yourself (at least silently). By doing this you will not only believe the truth and have a more accurate view of yourself, but your confidence will grow too. And we have all heard women say “How attracted they were to a guy because he was confident.”

This goes back to cave men days when women would choose men based on survival. The most confident guy is usually the strongest, fittest guy or in other words the best mate for the woman.

Picking Up Women – How To Eliminate 96% Of Rejection

Why don’t you approach every beautiful woman you see? Because the fear that she may reject and humiliate you, often leaves you feeling paralyzed.

Its ok, you are not alone. Every man experiences this fear. And did you know women get scared, nervous, sweaty palms, and draw mental blanks when they are approached by the opposite sex? They are just like us and experience very similar feelings of anxiety.

The good news is that by using a couple easy tools you can eliminate up to 96% of the possibility of humiliation. This tool does not always lead to a successful closing; however it will determine if she will be receptive to your approach or not.

I call it the smile test and this is how it works;

You see the beautiful girl and eventually you exchange eye contact. When your eyes meet, you genuinely and sincerely smile at her. If she returns your smile she is going to receptive to you initiating a conversation.

This is for a few reasons:

1. Smiling is the most basic form of flirting and best of all you dont have to say a single word.

2. If you smile at her, you are showing you are confident and assertive. You saw an attractive girl and you smiled at her.

3. Very few other men will just smile at a strange girl. This will make you unique and different from every other guy she could be dating.

4. Lastly, you dont expect women with boyfriends to be smiling at strange men because it is flirting. Thus you have a much higher likelihood that she will be single and available.

If you think back about some of the prettiest women that you have seen and wish you had talked too, likely one of these girls smiled at you. When women smile they are much more attractive. The same is true for men.

In addition when you do this, she will see you as much more approachable, confident, outgoing, and better looking. If you are nervous about rejection an easy step to get things started is to just smile at the women you find attractive.

You dont have to talk to them but notice how many return your smile. It feels really good to have good looking girls smile at you.

Where to Meet Women – The Bar is the Last Place

Unfortunately, when you are in search of women the bar is the most common and most practical place to go. However in reality this is probably the hardest place to pick up a quality woman.

Sure you may get lucky a couple times and pick up someone. However likely she is either going through a phase, or is a bar fly and you may need a shot of penicillin after you spend the night with her, if your lucky.

While there are definitely good people that go out to the bars. Most woman are on full alert and have their guard up. This is a result of the drunk idiot sitting next to you that said “Hey you girl, you got a real pretty ____.” Unfortunately this guy makes you pay in the end.

So Where Should You Go?

Good question, you should go everywhere. Go shopping, talk to the women you interact with, pick up girls at work, anywhere and everywhere!

Additionally, I have had some success using some online dating sites. Some are as cheap as $20 per month and when it comes to dating that is a drop in the bucket!

One of the reasons you will have more success approaching girls in a non-bar atmosphere is because so few other men do that. The vast majority wait, go to the bar have a couple drinks and try to pick up women and this is when most quality women are least likely to be picked up.

Think about it, you are one of the few genuinely good men out there. You are compared to all the other rude drunk jerks that have already tried to hit on her that night.

I am not saying don’t try but you will likely have a much lower conversion from conversation to phone number to making out than if you meet women, anywhere else!

Also when you start a conversation with a girl in a non-bar setting, it shows you are confident & assertive. This is different than every other guy. This is a very good thing, you always want to be different that every other guy. Otherwise, why should she go out with you if you are just like everyone else.

So in short, avoid the bar instead; go to the mall, join a dating site, talk to all girls in any situation that you find attractive. Including if they are just walking down the street.

The only exception is if there are some cool wine bars in your area, you should definitely go there. You will likely be outnumbered by women and these are typically not places that girls that intend on going out to the bars all night, go to.

How To Talk With Girls

When you are talking to women there is nothing worse than nervous anxiety. It happens when you run out of things to say.

Your hands start to sweat, and it is impossible to form one coherent thought. Typically this is where you put your foot in your mouth and end up humiliating yourself.

However just by taking a few easy steps you can eliminate most of these feelings.

Step 1 – Prepare your conversation topics

This means think about what you are going to talk about before you approach. For example ask her where she is from?

Did she grow up there? Does her family live there? Does she come from a big family? Brothers and sisters?

Or talk about politics. Did she vote for Obama? What does she think of the stimulus package? Auto bailout?

These are just a few examples. The point is take a few moments and prepare a couple conversation topics. It will help tremendously.

I suggest three topics. As you get more comfortable you will not need to prepare as much. However this really helps to eliminate that nervous anxiety when you fun out of things to say.

Also it will make you appear less nervous. If you appear less nervous you are seen as self assured or confident. This will help her feel more comfortable and attracted to you.

Step 2 – Mantras

Create a couple mental mantras. You should use these before, during, and after your approaches.

For example, I always tell myself “she is just as nervous as you.” This is true!

The next time you are fighting with yourself about approaching or not tell yourself she is just as nervous as you. It will help to make you feel more comfortable. Just like men women get nervous too.

Another good one is “Act As if.” This means act as if you are the man. Act like she should be lucky you are talking to her.

Specifically use this to help give off that elusive confidence, that women are so attracted to. The truth is she is lucky because you are a good quality guy.

It’s not like you want to take her home and beat her up! Instead you just want to get to know her and see how things go. Of course, be careful you don’t go to far and been seen as arrogant.

Last one is “Don’t chase her just replace her.” Thankfully there are a lot of women in the world.

If things don’t work out with one, who cares? There are plenty more, don’t let yourself get down about one woman.