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		<title>Applying Law Of Attraction Affirmations To Focus The Mind On Your Goals</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Apr 2010 10:38:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rich Thorne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Use law of attraction affirmations to focus on the things you would like to manifest in your life. It is easy to say I want to be wealthy but are you thinking the thoughts and feeling the emotions that will bring it to you? Are you trying to make it happen or are attracting it? The law of attraction states that what your mind is on most is what you'll attract to you. These thoughts have vibrations and those things that vibrate at that same frequency will be attracted to that thought and feeling. If you are vibrating wealth you will attract it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Use law of attraction affirmations to focus on the things you would like to manifest in your life. It is easy to say I want to be wealthy but are you thinking the thoughts and feeling the emotions that will bring it to you? Are you trying to make it happen or are attracting it? The law of attraction states that what your mind is on most is what you&#8217;ll attract to you. These thoughts have vibrations and those things that vibrate at that same frequency will be attracted to that thought and feeling. If you are vibrating wealth you will attract it.</p>
<p>We automatically think of what it is we do not want when we want to change things in life. What needs to be done is to solidly place the mind and emotions in what we do want. If we keep our minds on what we don&#8217;t want we will consistently attract it.</p>
<p>So instead of thinking I don&#8217;t want to be alone, you would think more like I want to be in a warm loving relationship. Affirmations take it one step further. They are positive reinforcement for what you wish to do or become. You may recite them daily as a constant reminder of where you want to go.</p>
<p>It cannot be repeated enough that it is not just the thoughts that create an attraction. It is not all in the mind but the heart, the feelings must be engaged. The greater the emotion the stronger the attraction. Absolute belief in your goal is essential as well. If belief and the law of attractions are not in sync there will be no manifestation.</p>
<p>You can get affirmations that are premade for what you&#8217;re seeking, or you can write them yourself. To make them you must write them in first person I, it must contain what you want to achieve and be in the present. Have several copies of it and place in the many places you spend time during the day. In your car, the coffee machine, or the bathroom mirror.</p>
<p>When repeating the law of attraction affirmations you must also feel them. Specifically feel how you would if you received what you&#8217;ve been seeking and visualize it. Engage all of yourself. This will help you realize it sooner.</p>
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		<title>Common Deal Breakers in Online Dating</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 03:23:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Marketeer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Meeting and dating some online is not different in meeting and dating someone offline. They both have same course before you can have a good date as it should be. When it comes to online dating, you should have to communicate first with that someone via electronic mail or by phone chat before personally meeting them in person. And once you have met that someone personally, there might be a chance for a second date or not. Similar when you meet a certain person offline before going on a first date. To make things work out well, you should avoid these common mistakes for you to have a memorable first date in online dating...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Meeting and dating some online is not different in meeting and dating someone offline. They both have same course before you can have a good date as it should be. When it comes to online dating, you should have to communicate first with that someone via electronic mail or by phone chat before personally meeting them in person. And once you have met that someone personally, there might be a chance for a second date or not. Similar when you meet a certain person offline before going on a first date. To make things work out well, you should avoid these common mistakes for you to have a memorable first date in online dating&#8230;</p>
<p>#1: Being serious too soon Even if you met a person online and had conversation or still having by email, chatting and talking over the phone, it does not mean that both of you are bound to be together as husband and wife. Even if both of you decided to meet in person, you should never assume that you are meant to be. That is too pathetic. You should get a hold of yourself whether it is offline dating or online dating. And you must keep that in mind. Too much expectation will only lead to a melancholic romance life and a broken heart. You should be just friends first to know each other well, and in time this might get into a good serious relationship. Give and have time to grow before you indulge into a commitment especially if you are looking for a long term partner.</p>
<p>Deal Breaker #2: Talking about too personal subjects during your very first date You should never talk about too personal issues during your very first date or when you just met her at a certain social gathering or online. Debatable subjects like religions, way of life, political opinions, and other personal things that might upset a woman. If you are already in a commitment, then that is the proper time to talk about these issues. But for the mean time, do not converse this kind of subjects.</p>
<p>#3: Skeptical person Skeptical person is definitely a turn off. The common mistake individuals do is talking about their past, like talking about their ex wife or husband, saying bitter things and sobbing about what happened while you are trying to have a date. If you are still not over on your past relationship, then do not force yourself trying this one out. It might shrug off the person&#8217;s interest. It will be much better if you already have moved on and now open for a new relationship.</p>
<p>#4:Giving out too much personal details Be cautious in giving out too many personal details about you. This might get you into a big trouble. Keep in mind that you are talking to a stranger, even if you are comfortable talking to them, you still cannot assure your safety and protection with them. Therefore, do not easily share your address or landline number, keep it private. Too much trust to a person you have just met is really a mistake. This might end up to a tragic scene.</p>
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		<title>How To Get A Girlfriend Back In Your Arms</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 07:10:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nikki Frost</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you want to discover how to get a girlfriend back? In three quarters of break ups, women are the ones who call it quits. As you are probably aware by this time in your life, women are irrational creatures. They don't always say or do what is in their best interest.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style='font-style:italic;' class='byline'>by Nikki Frost</div>
<p>Do you want to discover how to get a girlfriend back? In three quarters of break ups, women are the ones who call it quits. As you are probably aware by this time in your life, women are irrational creatures. They don&#8217;t always say or do what is in their best interest. </p>
<p>Many times, within days of ending the relationship, she is ready to get you back. But, often she will be too embarrassed that she overreacted and will not let you know that she wants to rekindle things. Unless you make the move, you will stay broken up. So, it is up to you in getting your girlfriend back.</p>
<p>What you need to realize in learning how to get a girlfriend back, is that your strategy has two parts to it. First of all, you need be become desirable to her again. Secondly, you need to show her that you are still available and willing to work things out.</p>
<p>If there was a main cause for the breakup, you need to handle that. For example &#8211; When Danny and Cathy first started dating, he would take her concerts and plays since she really liked the arts. As they got more involved in the relationship, they increasingly went to more sporting events, since he was a sports fanatic. But, when Cathy suddenly ended the relationship, only then did Danny notice how few concerts or plays he had taken her to.</p>
<p>So the point is if you want to win your girlfriend back, you need to make sure she is having fun in the relationship. And to do that, you need to do things together that she loves too.</p>
<p>After the break up, Danny did hassle Cathy yet with calls or text messages. He gave her time and space to cool off. But a few weeks later he casually let her know that he had two tickets to play Cathy wanted to see, and he asked her if she wanted to go as friends.</p>
<p>Of course, Rachel jumped at the chance to do something she liked with the man she was still in love with. Scott and Rachel went to the concert and then he took her to a romantic restaurant where he bought the best bottle of wine on the menu. Rachel was blown away by the &#8220;new&#8221; Scott and started hinting that she wouldn&#8217;t mind restarting the relationship.</p>
<p>At this point, the ball was in Scott&#8217;s court. He now had the upper hand to define the terms of getting bacl together. In knowing how to get a girlfriend back meant getting her on his terms.</p>
<p>But he made it quite clear, that if the relationship was to work, she needed to be more interested in his sports, while he would be willing to take her to more cultural events.</p>
<p>Because Mark had done such a good job at impressing her, and making sure she had a good time with him, Claire was more than eager to agree to his terms when they got back together.</p>
<p>If you remember, Cathy was the one who broke up with Danny. But it was it irrational and she really never wanted it o end. Danny took control of the situation by identifying what was wrong, fixing it, and then setting down new terms for a future relationship. And that is how to get a girlfriend back.</p>
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		<title>5 Secret Steps How To Get Him Back</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2009 06:07:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nikki Frost</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you go through a break up, it can be tough for you to figure out how to get him back. This is perfectly normal and most women do not know where to start. So here are 5 steps that may help:]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style='font-style:italic;' class='byline'>by Nikki Frost</div>
<p>When you go through a break up, it can be tough for you to figure out how to get him back. This is perfectly normal and most women do not know where to start. So here are 5 steps that may help:</p>
<p>Most of us were taught how to date someone properly, and you were never shown how to get your ex boyfriend back. Most of the time it is one of those things you have to learn from experience. But if you want to leave out the guessing and get him back sooner than you thought possible then, follow this advice.</p>
<p>1. Think Clearly:</p>
<p>Your first part in learning how to get him back is to get rid of all distractions. Clear your mind from negativity and self-pity, accept what has happened and be strong about fixing it.</p>
<p>When you feel depressed or angry, think back to a happy memory of him, and why it was so good. You cannot possibly focus on getting him back if your mind is filled with bad thoughts.</p>
<p>2. Focus On The Present:</p>
<p>For you to move forward you need to accept what has happened. It does not matter how hard you try, you will never be able to go back and change what happened between you and your boyfriend. So stop living in the past.</p>
<p>It is better to concentrate on the present and perhaps the future too. As soon as you accept that your relationship was and never will be perfect, you will know how to get your boyfriend back. Although everything may have appeared ideal, do not forget about your differences. Relationships do not go wrong in a day, but they break down over time, so it takes time to mend them.</p>
<p>3.  Forget About Contacting Him:</p>
<p>If you keep on phoning him or sending him messages, it will really annoy him, which will destroy any chance to get him back. Even if you just have to see or hear him again, control yourself and give him some breathing space.</p>
<p>Try not to bother him with endless text messages, phone call or email. Instead, allow him the time to absorb the situation and realize how stupid he was to let you go. As they say: &#8220;Absence makes the heart grow fonder&#8221;, so the more time you give him alone, the more he will start to miss you. So do not screw things up by trying to contact him &#8211; you may have an extremely hard time trying to get your boyfriend back.</p>
<p>4 &#8211; Work On Your Appearance:</p>
<p>It has been proven that when we look great, we feel great too. You may see this as shallow, but it really does help cure your depression and boost your self-esteem when make an effort to look attractive. So treat yourself to a fancy haircut, a hot outfit, and great makeup, and get out there get him back. If you gained a bit of weight, then this is the perfect time to exercise and tone up.</p>
<p>By firming up and looking attractive you will gain confidence and walk with a spring in your step again. And as guys start to notice this they will want to be around you more. You will be irresistible to men again; that includes your ex boyfriend.</p>
<p>5 &#8211; Do Not Rush Things:</p>
<p>If you have been following along and got this far, then there is a good chance your ex boyfriend would have contacted you by now. Just imagine his expression when he see you looking your best! He will likely be sorry for leaving you, and try to get you back, but do not rush back into his arms too soon. Rather try to take it slow and reduce physical contact to minimum.</p>
<p>When he see how much more confident and attractive you look, it will surely get him interested again. And as you stop him from getting too close too soon, he will want you even more. That is just the way men are programmed &#8211; they want things they cannot get. So keep him on his toes, and not only will you have the upper hand to get him back, but you will protect yourself from getting hurt,if his intentions were to take advantage of you.</p>
<p>Show him that he will have to work for your affection.</p>
<p>At first, these steps in learning how to get your boyfriend back may not be simple for you to do. You may feel the urge to call him, but the more you resist the temptation the better. Just follow these steps as closely as you can and you will have a good chance in knowing how to get him back.</p>
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