A Jedi Mind Trick For Capturing Any Girl’s Interest

The collective male’s attempt at piquing a woman’s interest runs the gamut from demonstrating a lightning-quick wit and sharing interesting stories about himself to doing magic tricks like a clown out of Barnum & Bailey’s circus.

But more often than not, her eyes wander to her cell phone and then meander to the people behind him.

In fact, just about everything in her environment seems to enthrall her except for him, causing a billion and one insecurities to snake into his mind, such as…

1). She must think I am ugly as sin.

2). Does she find me as boring as Velveeta cheese?

3). Do I have the personality of a houseplant?

4). Did I forget to wear deodorant?

5). Is my ego going to be an obituary in tomorrow’s paper?

And if he’s bitter, he might think: She’s like a warm toilet seat – some guy was there before me, another will be there when I get up.

Like a hard working mule, he takes one last crack at making conversation.

But, alas, she stings him with, “It was nice meeting you but I have to go.”

In retrospect, he may think: Damn! That fall-asleep boring conversation piece took the pickup to a crippling halt. It was like the one unlucky drink that shoves a wavering alcoholic off the wagon. I should have never used it.

Most of us have experienced something along these lines.

Many of us have thought: If I only had more interesting things to say, do, or show women, my outcome with them would be completely different.

Although there may be a speck of truth here, most great orators, politicians, and salesmen will tell you, “The content of what you say is far less important than how you say it.”

I’ve seen comedians put an audience in stitches one night yet bomb the next. While the standup routine they used was exactly the same on both nights, their delivery was completely different.

For this reason…

You won’t learn any interesting conversation pieces, cute lines, or fall-on-the-floor-laughing jokes in this article.

Instead…

I’m going to teach you a communication secret that captivates women.

But before I go on, I want you to make me a promise (and, as you’ll see in a few minutes, this promise is for your own good)…

No matter how boring you think you are (even if you think you’re more boring than a 90 year old woman living in a nursing home), I want you to promise me that you won’t change the content of what you say to women for one week.

Here’s why…

I want you to see how adding just this simple secret to what you currently do and say when interacting with women can dramatically increase your success.

In school, you’re taught to finish a thought or idea before moving onto the next. Great advice if you want to plunge women into a narcoleptic stupor.

But if you want women to hang onto your every word, you need to break this crippling habit and start using nested loops.

A nested or open loop is when you start an idea, thought, or story, and instead of finishing it, you move onto something else. In other words, you keep the loop open.

Whenever the human mind is presented with an open loop – unfinished idea, thought, or story – it seeks closure.

Open loops are a form of what I call “tension loops” because they create unresolved emotional tension in a woman.

Even if a woman finds you as interesting and attractive as a sewer rat, the open loop unconsciously compel her to hang onto every word that pours out of your lips and emotionally drives her to see you as a valuable Prize.

Because she seeks resolution to the tension you’ve sparked in her mind and knows that you can release the tension, she perceives you as having value and heeds close attention to everything you say.

Imagine a slovenly bum and a high maintenance babe crossing paths. The bum makes a tragic try at conversation with her by saying, “Hello. My name is Jack and I am homeless. Let me tell you about how I became homeless.”

Chances are, she’d have no interest and scurry off because she finds him aesthetically repulsive, possibly scary, and of little value.

But if he fired an open loop at her, such as, “You know what they say about women with green eyes?” he would probably spark unresolved tension in her body. She’d feel a yen for emotional closure. Closure only he has the power to bring her.

And bada bing, bada boom…

This vagabond she normally would never give the time of day to piques her interest and has value (or Prizability) in her eyes.

Furthermore, open loops can build sexual arousal…

When you spark emotional tension within the context of flirting with a woman it becomes sexualized in her body.

But there’s a facet of open loops I haven’t mentioned yet…

It’s called the “Zeigarnik effect.”

One of the early contributors to Gestalt psychology Bluma Zeigarnik noticed that waiters remember orders up until they serve the food. Then they forget. This led to the discovery that the mind retains the most information when a loop is open.

How does this help you? A woman will probably remember everything you tell her between opening up a loop and closing it.

I want to share with you a powerful application of open loops I learned from watching politicians…

Oftentimes, when politicians are asked a question, they skirt around it for several minutes, talking about almost irrelevant topics, before directly addressing it. This keeps the listener in suspense.

How can we apply this to seduction and attraction?

Here’s an example…

When most men meet a woman they utter their name and then shake the woman’s hand. Usually that’s it. The interaction is over.

An hour – or even a few minutes – later she probably won’t remember his name or anything about him.

Instead, when a woman asks me my name I use an open loop.

I may say,

“When I was a kid my mom told me that she and my dad originally named me Arete, which means all the qualities that make up someone with good character.

And I said, ‘Wow, mom… that’s awesome! Why didn’t you keep the name?’

And she said, ‘Well honey, you’re lucky we didn’t name you Arete because it’s the name of a goddess from Greek mythology.

But we didn’t really give a crap about you having a female name.

The real reason we didn’t name you Arete was that our dog was named Arete – we really loved the name.

And on the day you were born our dog was hit by a car. When we looked at you, we didn’t want you to remind us of the dog. So we named you Josh instead.’”

In lieu of giving her the instant gratification of learning my name I’m using an open loop. This builds unresolved tension inside her body.

Her unconscious mind seeks to bring closure to this loop, inciting her to hang on to my every word.

Had I just told her my name from the get go, she might have judged, “This average looking guy probably lives a boring life,” and then moved onto another man.

But by using an open loop, I had an opportunity to demonstrate that I come from cultured people, have a sense of humor, tell great stories, and possess value (or Prizability).

Plus, due to the Zeigarnik effect, she will remember that I was the guy almost named Arete.

Josh Lubens, a dating coach, write under the pseudonym Swinggcat and has been teaching men how to attract women for the last decade. Visit his website if you’d like to get a world class education on how to attract women.

Click Here To Find Out How To Attract Women

Do you want to know how to attract women?

The great thing to know is that there is no rule set in stone about what to do to attract women.

However, that’s also a bad thing!

Because you only have some general guidelines that you can follow so I can’t give you a structured thing to say to get you results 100% of the time.

This is what I can provide you, a list of things a guy must have in his personality to attract women. If you really want to learn how to attract women for good, then you need to have these elements as part of your personality.

Getting women does not require you to have a lot of money, be good looking or any of the other stuff the media says you need. Having heaps of money and being good looking is not a bad thing though, just not required.

If you want to know how to attract women, then read up:

*You tell her that you want to be more than just friends: Why is this? If you end up in the friends zone, then you will end up in the mind of a women as not being relationship material. Please don’t ask why.

*You let her know that youre a high status male – Women like men! So why do a lot of men try and act like women? It must have something to do with the way society is trying to teach men that they need to be that girly new age type of man. But you know what?

Girls and women have liked guys who were behaving like dudes since the good part of human existence!

Maybe it would be likely that if you stopped acting like a girl, and being fussy or whiney then you would get women!

* You demonstrate to her that youre a high value male ” Remember how I told you that girls like guys who act like guys? The reason for this is, because by being dominant and being a male, you are demonstrating to her that you are a high status person. You don’t even need cars, looks or money for her to know this!

You just need to show her that you have traits that make her think you are a high status guy!

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The #1 Thing That Women Find Irresistible

So you know that when you meet a woman it’s very important you show her you are different than the average guy. In fact that’s one of your biggest goals is to rise above all the other creepy, timid, boring or just plain average guys she meets on a regular basis. Some guys seem to take the whole “being different” thing a bit too far and try to come up with all kinds of wacky outfits when they go out, or go out of their way to try to convince a woman they are a true original somehow.

Separating yourself from other men is not about wearing a leopard skin cowboy hat when you go out. That’s outdated tricks of a pickup artist and you’re going to end up looking childish. Though there are many things to consider when you first approach a woman for the first time, here is what I think is an extremely important trait you need to show her:

1. Have a passion

Women like men with a passion. More than money or looks actually. Of course some might care about your wallet or want to date a male model, but most women would rather meet a man who has something he cares deeply about and is striving toward. It’s not so much success as it is ambition. In fact most women would admit that a man who has something more important than her is actually very attractive. This is a fact. No woman respects a man who would set aside his purpose or mission for a woman.

So when you meet a woman you need to express your interests to her with enthusiasm. Never be ashamed for what you believe or enjoy. Act as if you believe everyone is as interested in the topic as you are. People cannot help but respect someone who is 100% committed to an idea. Don’t make any excuses for your interests. If you do I call that value-seeking and no woman is attracted to a value-seeking man. The very enthusiasm you have for something is exactly what is going to bring an amazing woman into your life.

Bruce teaches men from all ages and walks of life how to successfully meet and date women. Be sure to sign up for his free crash-course attraction video or check out the Real World Attraction blog for more information.

A Cool Place To Meet Women Most Guys Overlook

I just discovered the best place to meet women and there was practically zero competition. I’m sure by now you have figured out that a sexy woman is not just going to magically appear in your life. The job of meeting her and attracting her is 100% in your hands. The best part about this little idea is that it will also help you become a more social person and meet even more attractive women.

I recently took an improv comedy class and I was blown away by the amount of cute women that go to these things. The classes are a great place for making friends and there is little pressure because everyone is there to learn how to be a better communicator and have fun. It’s a great environment for starting up conversations with the women you meet there.

I found the women there were bubbly, interesting and just just a tad bit crazy. (in a fun way). And the fact that you are the kind of guy who gets out of the house and betters his situation really shows women that you are different than the average Joe. You are pursuing interests and enjoying yourself. This is very attractive to women.

Improv teaches you how to be spontaneous, have a better sense of humor and tell good stories. Story-telling and humor set off women’s attraction wiring like a handful of firecrackers. This is a fact. Where else can you meet women and at the same time polish up your social skills? The answer is nowhere!

The classes are almost always free to try out so there is no reason you shouldn’t give it a shot. Who knows, you just might meet an awesome women to practice your new improv skills with. Nowhere else will you find such a fun environment with little pressure and zero competition.

For more tips on attraction, women and dating, check out Bruce’s free crash course attraction video or you can read more attract women articles at the Real World Attraction blog.

3 Traits That Will Attract Women To You Like a Magnet

Have you ever made a woman cringe? I know I have. Before I studied attraction like a science I had many experiences where my attraction destroying habits literally made a woman make a terrible face and pull away from me entirely. And there’s probably nothing more painful than that look. But it was worth it for me. Because I dug deep and searched out answers within myself and from every resource I could think of to get this whole “women and dating” thing down. I wanted to know what caused that horrible face and never do the things that created it again. I learned a few valuable things in my journey. Here are 3 things you need to know immediately:

1. Learn how to tease women properly. I’m talking about being able to playfully joke with a woman, not be a jerk. The secret is to get her laughing and simultaneously make her wonder whether she has a shot of being with you. It’s about sending her mixed messages while maintaining a fun sense of humor with her. This sort of thing is definitely an art in itself but something you must understand fully.

2. You have to fully understand the Art of Flirting. We as men are not naturally good at flirting. We like straight-forward talk and prefer to communicate like this with everyone we meet. But if you can’t sub-communicate with women in a flirty way then its like you are going to be talking to a brick wall. She will squeak out yes or no answers to your questions and the interaction will go nowhere. The world of attraction lies in her emotions and something you cannot speak directly to. It takes learning a new language. The language of attraction. Also known as flirting.

3. You have to learn how to create the emotion of sexual tension. If you cannot create the emotion of sexual tension with a woman, she won’t care to get to know you beyond just a friend. Sexual tension is created by something I refer to as “perceived roadblocks” that you create and tear down at the right times. This strategy creates a rollercoaster-like series of emotions inside a woman and she will be uncontrollably attracted to you.

These are 3 big characteristics of guys who are naturally good with women. It’s what separates you from the men who bore her and the men who she can’t stop thinking about.

If you want to learn more about how to attract women then check out the free crash course video as well as the Real World Attraction blog

Flirting with Girls – Ideas to Spark Your Creativity

Flirting with girls is often seen as an intimidating thing, when it should be fun and entertaining. If you want the thrill of seeing that girl smile back at you and the ultimate reward of walking away with her on your arm, then you have to get rid of the tension and relax. The real trick to flirting with girls successfully is to make them think it is effortless and natural.

The last thing you want to do is give off the vibes of fear and intimidation when flirting with girls because they are just going to roll their eyes and walk in the opposite direction. To get you started thinking of some creative ways to approach girls and let them know you are interested, consider the following ideas for flirting.

Crack a Joke

Girls love to laugh! It may seem like most are more proud of their frown than their smile, but it’s a proven fact that the boys who can make a girl smile are more likely to have success when it comes to romance. Therefore, it makes sense that one great way of flirting with girls is to crack a joke that brings out her smile naturally.

We are not talking about cheesy jokes or saying the same one over and over again. You have to have a real sense of humor, since a girl will know if you are faking it. Find jokes which are funny and remember a ton of them. Practice them at home until you are able to instantly snap one off at the appropriate time as if it just comes naturally.

Tricks and Treats

If you aren’t a naturally funny guy, don’t worry! Flirting with girls can also be quite successful if you know some type of magic tricks or are able to give little treats of some sort at the appropriate moment. Again, this has to be done correctly if you are to really win a girl over with these techniques. It has to flow naturally, so practice is essential.

You never want to chase a girl down and force her to watch some trick that is extremely obvious. You want her to wonder how you did that, not report that her five year old brother has been doing that for years. You have to find tricks which get her guessing or thinking. Something with a touch of humor will get a giggle and pay off twofold.

For treats, we are not talking about whipping out a dozen long stem roses when you see her at the movies; unless she is already your date! Think of treats in terms of little things you can do for her. Try to open doors for her. Pick something up when she drops it. Give her information when she asks a question. Just trying to enter her world in small helpful ways can open the door to small acts of flirtation such as smiles and staring at one another for a moment.

Flirting with girls may not come easy to you, but you have to make it look effortless to the girls if you are to get anywhere with them. Some may find trying too hard while flirting with girls cute and endearing, but for most it is simply a turn off.

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2 Things To Avoid To Get A Girl

Do you possess an irrational and worthless fear of women? Like a woman, your fear is emotional and irrational and wanting of attention. And like a woman, your fear gets jealous when you look or think about other women.

I think that one of the biggest causes of fear when it comes to situations with women is stress. By definitely placing too much importance on what the sweet woman thinks of you. To put it in different words, most guys, and this included me, dont take action because theyre afraid that theyll screw up, or that the woman or others around will judge them.

Lose your fear of women and you will enter into a world of love and sweetness. Women are so nice and smell good and are soft. Us guys are hard, hairy, and above all else, not very sweet. Do you like candy? Me too so why eat beef-jerky when you can have a strawberry milk-shake?

Do you pick up the phone when she calls the very first time? Maybe, depends on a variety of factors the most important being how you feel about this woman. There is no need to waste her time and yours if you do not intend on spending some time with this woman. Why? It is a waste of energy and effort and we should take advice from the animal world, things that expend precious energy need to be avoided at all cost. The strength could best be served in many other activities, like sex!

Answering her phone calls depends on how well you want to get to know this girl. Say you are not very interested and would rather not deal with her and most definitely do not care about her life, in general. Not to be mean but do you really need to hear about her day? The answer to this question will have to be, maybe.

Building Attraction So The Women Chase You

It’s interesting that when guys try to list what attracts women, they usually mention looks, money and power. While that’s not a bad list and to tell you the truth, it’s pretty darn honest, things just aren’t the same when it comes to women, and what attracts them to men. Which is one of the reasons that men land these good women, honestly depicting their true feelings. Those things help, but as we will see, there exists many more powerful traits that will attract women.

The same thing applies to men, who in general, will be attracted to a seductive smile, good body language (posture) and signs of healthy. Fine. this is going to be easier than you though huh? The question is what attracts women? anything that is geared towards them. thats it. There are many issues that could help you in landing a very fine woman and being honest and attentive to her needs are important. What attracts women? The mention of something that involves their world.

This sounds crazy, I know, but there really are ways to go about getting women to pick you up. One of these methods is to act like you do not need them or even really want to be around them. The knee-jerk reaction will be as planned as the takeover of the stock market by the raiders, every detail will be rehearsed to the point of being old-hat.

The single biggest mistake that most guys make when it comes to being confident around women is to not rust their natural G-d given feelings about themselves. Having little or no confidence in yourself goes against every grain that is is your body.

Make the woman want to get into you in every way by just acting very naturally and doing the most important thing, acting as if you are ignoring them. It works, trust me. If you feel comfortable around them and yourself, they will pick up on this, and start to feel the same way. Simply being comfortable allows them to feel what nature has intended them to feel and the biological forces will take over.

One final thing is to try miroring some form of body language, if they cross their legs together, you cross your arms. Stand in their way without looking at them, and have fun acting natural and they will notice you. If they notice you, and they feel like they have report, they may just approach you.

How To Get A Girlfriend That Is Right For You

How to get a girlfriend – If you’re like most guys, you’re probably wondering how to get a girlfriend? It actually can be easier then you are making it.

The very first thing you need to look for is to find a girl that is interested in you. You cant find a girlfriend who isnt interested in you, at least if you want a long lasting relationship. Certainly you can find a girl you are interested in instead, but it is much easier, if you find a girl that is already interested in you. Of course to do this, you must first be interesting. If you are not interesting, you need to learn how to be interesting. Join a toastmasters club and practice speaking in front of people, or listen to great story tellers, just for a few examples. You might also try to adventure into trying a standup act at a random amateur night just for fun. Not only will you get to hear others tell funny stories, but also you will have a chance to practice on your own. Listen to magicians who often times are very good at telling stories as a good magician uses stories as part of the illusion. Its simple enough, learn to be interesting, and women will be interested. It’s not rocket science.

Once you have learned to be more interesting, now you need to be courageous and meet lots of girls. It is easier if you consider this practice, and just approach as many girls as you can, rather than be concerned with whom specifically. If you must, make up a fake name at some busy mall and pretend you are someone else. You can start by going to different places. Try libraries, book stores, rock concerts, malls, shopping centers, after school activities, try joining a meet up group at meetup.com and finding a woman who has a common interest by looking for groups that you are interested in.

Try to be interested in lots of things. Even if you arent, you should be willing to try anything. Become a “yes” man, and if you arent sure what that means, theres a movie called Yes man that you can watch staring Jim Carey. Say yes to a lot more of things, and you will find some things that you like. The more things you try out the better, as you can gain more insight into what other people like and why.

Some places will be better than others for different people. Learn to be a little bit picky, but never overly picky. If you learn to try new things, but be selective, but still regularly try new opportunities, you will find yourself doing just fine.

The more things you try, the more you will naturally have to talk about, and the more interesting you will seem. Use this very simple tip, and you will be interesting. Of course, having girls interested in you is just a start on how to get a girlfriend.

Learn How To Attract Women

Do you want to know how to attract women?

The great thing to know is that there is no rule set in stone about what to do to attract women.

But, that’s not a good thing.

These are only some general rules that I suggest you follow, but I can’t say if you do you will get laid every time.

What I can provide you with is a list of common elements that women in general find attractive. If you have these qualities in your personality, then you will attract women.

Getting women does not require you to have a lot of money, be good looking or any of the other stuff the media says you need. Having heaps of money and being good looking is not a bad thing though, just not required.

So heres a list of things that you need, listen up because Im going to teach you how to attract women:

*You let her know that you are interested more than being just a friend: What’s the reason for this being so? If you find yourself in the friend zone, then you will be in the wrong part of a woman’s mind. You will not be in a place where you are considered to be romantic relationship material. I do not know why. It just so happens in that way.

*You let her know that youre a man ” Girls like guys acting like guys. So why do guys act like women? I must be with the idea that society brain washes you to believe that somehow you need to be that type of metro sensitive male. But you know

Women have been drawn to men who were acting like guys for well since the beginning of time!

If you stopped acting like a metrosexual guy you would be more successful with women!

* You come across as a high status male: Like I said before, girls like guys who act like they are guys. But why is this the case? Because these men display a higher status by acting like men! Relax, no cash or car is required to show this!

All you need to display key things in your personality to make her perceive that you are a high status male!

Above was a short summary of ideas that you needed to know if you want to learn how to get women. 

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