Everything Not To Do In Order To Attract Women
May 31, 2010 by Alex Decoto
Filed under Free Dating
So many men are looking for the magic bullet to help them seduce the women they want. They want it now and they want it fast. Well, this is not so easy as some people might present it to you. In fact, we might spend so much time trying to figure this is out that we miss up on some wonderful opportunities.
Now I am going to explain you my rules. This method is a “really” easy way to attract women which took me time to develop.
It’s easiest to get women attract women when you have some girl-friends which are going to introduce them to you. Then it’s much easier to attract women than using other complicated ways. You just focus on meeting more and more females and make them friends.
While you are meeting more and more female friends, you become more used to being around women. Female friends help you with a lot of aspects of yourself that you can help fix. So first get a lot of girl-friends.
Now we get to the part where you work on yourself so that you better yourself. Don’t be the average boring guy that does the same thing everyone does. Bring some joy and difference to your life. Make a new hobby, get a new job maybe. Stop the same old routine of work, beer, video games! Get out there and experience new things in life.
When you finally get a life, you will find that women respond to you better. It’s interesting and intriguing to a woman when you have a style of life that you love and that is interesting.
I just gave you two of my best advice on what to do. Now I’ll tell what not to do.
Get rid of that mentality that you have to “pick and run game on women”. You will come off as a needy wolf if you do this. You can just talk normally to them, and just be interesting in an attractive way. After some time of this, eventually, some of these women will show interest in you, and that’s when you can “seduce” them.
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Shyness Kills Nice Guys With Women
May 13, 2010 by Alex Decoto
Filed under Dating Tips
I was talking to a friend of mine who sees himself as a “nice guy”, and he had a bit of a confusion about women, nice guys and confidence.
He basically told me “You know, I get this whole thing about confidence, is that really why women don’t like nice guys?”
My answer to him? Yes of course! A very firm and solid yes!
It is all about the shyness. I have a really shocking revelation to you. Women are literally blind to male shyness. I mean between two guys who are identical, except one is shy, the shy one will get as much as ten times worse results with women.
1) Women don’t see shyness in men
The guys online who claim that women hate shy guys completely misinterpret things. Its not that women hate shy guys… Its that women don’t even know guys can be shy or have issues or fear.
When you are shy, you actually end up acting in ways she misinterprets as being arrogant, jerk-like and cold. She literally doesn’t know its possible for a man to be shy around her. She’s too busy worrying about her own insecurities. So when you don’t ask her out due to shyness, she blames herself, never even assuming you might be shy.
2) All dating requires both parties to play the courtship ritual
Yes, just like animals, we too have a mating ritual. This ritual requires that males do certain things, and women do others. Shyness screws up this ritual on both sides, but mostly the male side.
This ritual presumes that males show sexual interest in females. Nice guys however don’t do this due to shyness or lack of confidence.
Nice guys don’t show direct, sexual interest in women, and they tend not to initiate the romantic process or bring it forward.
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Advice on How to Use Psychology to Make Your Ex Girlfriend Come Back
November 26, 2009 by Paul Prince
Filed under Dating Tips
Many men simply move on and find a new girlfriend after a break up. If that isn’t good enough for you and you are determined to put to use some good advice to make your ex girlfriend want you back, then your best bet is to learn and apply some psychological principles that will give you the upper hand.
Don’t focus too much of your attention on trying to figure out the perfect magic words to say to your ex girlfriend, because the truth is that if you get your ex girlfriend back, your words will have very little to do with it. Did any one thing you said in particular make your girlfriend leave you? It stands to reason, then, that no one thing you can possibly say will bring her back, right?
The real reason your girlfriend left you is that over time, she lost attraction for you. It’s actually quite a classic case in relationships that go on for a signifcant block of time, but you can win favor with her affections again. You did it in the first place, and you can get it back. Still, the rules of the game have changed a little bit.
You should definitely start utilizing psychological techniques when you interact with your ex girlfriend. It may sound like what I’m telling you is going to be complicated, but I assure you that it is not.
Basically, it works like this: attraction is entirely based on what’s going on in the brain. Therefore, if you can learn to control the psychological mechanisms which trigger attraction, then you can turn your girlfriend’s attraction for you up or down like a volume knob! I’m deadly serious.
This may sound a little sneaky or underhanded to you. Maybe you even think I’m evil for telling you this. But is there really anything wrong with using whatever means necessary to get your ex girlfriend back if you intend to treat her well? If you actually care about her, chances are you will treat her way better than the new guy she will probably otherwise end up with.
You should only feel badly about using psychological tricks to get your girlfriend back if you have bad intentions. If your intentions are good, then the ends justify the means. Besides, your girlfriend won’t mind being wildly attracted to you all over again. She’ll probably love you for it. So take my advice, and if you really care about this girl — don’t let her get away. Do whatever it takes to get her back!
Are you ready to get your ex girlfriend back? Here is another important technique that you should learn to get her back: How to Make An Ex Girlfriend Jealous. If you just want to get over your ex girlfriend, then this should help: How to Get Over My Ex Girlfriend






