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Discover The Humor Women Love

February 18, 2010 by  
Filed under Free Dating

It is common knowledge that women love men with a great sense of humor and that can make them laugh.

But why is humor so important to women?

Cause when you make her laugh her body releases hormones called Endorphins.

Remember that women are much more emotional and these hormones give her a natural high sensation. A sensation that women love. The same sensation that she gets from chocolate and you know just how much women love chocolate.

But you need to realize that not all humor is going to be amusing to women and failing to be the right kind of funny could very easily be sabotaging your dating game.

Note that no woman wants a clown; not in public and definitely not in private (unless she is into some weird fetish). And that brings up an important question that you must answer:

“What Humor Do Women love?”

Now unless you have a career in stand-up comedy, then it is wise to avoid generic jokes from joke books and comedy shows.

Let me explain…

The reason to avoid those jokes is because you do not want to appear like a clown or a comical character in any way, shape or form.

And appearing like a clown or comical character is the image that rehearsed jokes will create for you.

Rehearsed jokes only work in a monologue (a stand up routine or comedy show) and not in a dialogue (conversations with women). If you try those jokes in a dialogue you will end up looking starved for attention and a bit of a social clown.

And so the kind of humor that you should learn is a mixture of wit and self confidence.

The reason that this combination works like gold is simply because having a sense of wit reveals a high level of intelligence whereas it is no secret that all women love confidence in men. Some dating gurus have coined this amazing kind of humor as ‘Cocky Humor’.

Wit + Self Confidence = Cocky Humor

Now please note that there is a fine line between ‘Cocky Humor’ and plain old arrogance. Learning how to tread that line requires some experience but that isn’t hard to acquire.

Now what you will find yourself struggling with is letting yourself be confident enough to be ‘Cocky’.

Why? Because ‘Cocky Humor’ requires a lot of self confidence.

Let me explain this to you….

When you use ‘Cocky Humor’ you will have to be confident enough to be able to tease her, no matter how beautiful she is. While at the same time being charming enough to communicate a playful and good nature behind your bold words.

‘Cocky Humor’ is never spiteful. It is always playful and witty and that is what makes it fun for women. It communicate to her that you are both intelligent and confident… which are both traits that women love in men.

Want to find out more about Cocky Humor, then visit Ngure Kanjumba’s site on how to Approach Beautiful Women and date them.