Approaching Older Women

If you’re looking to meet a great woman, one of the things you may want to consider is meeting women who are older than the type you might normally go for.

But before I go any further with this, I want to make a distinction here…

There is a difference between women who are “older than you,” and “older women.”

For instance, a woman in her 20s could be older than you, but that’s different from a woman in her 30s, 40s, and beyond.

So I’m going to talk about “older women,” in regards to the fact that I consider women over 35 as being “older” in my book.

Some women may take offense to this, and some men out there might even say women in their mid-to-late 30s aren’t “older,” but I judge this based on what women FEEL.

A woman who is 35 and still single definitely FEELS like she’s an older woman. This is because typically, she has been married, had kids, or is worried she’ll never get married by this point in her life.

Technically, this type of thinking starts for women around age 30, but by 35, it REALLY kicks into high gear. So my advice is geared towards women 35+, are we clear?

Okay then…

First of all, approaching older women is generally much easier than younger women. Not just because it probably doesn’t happen to them all that often anymore, but because the woman will receive the attention better.

When it comes to approaching older women, I like to go with being EXTREMELY complimentary and flirty. Women who get positive attention from men, especially when the woman is older than they are, will become very receptive to it if done right.

Understand – women feel like they’re always in competition with OTHER women. Other, younger, women. So if you can make them feel attractive, they will be quite receptive to you because you’re validating to them that they “still got it.”

Trust me – even if the older woman is still attractive, this will work. I once dated a 36 year old actress when I was 28. She was a stunning blonde, but incredibly insecure about her looks because she felt like she wasn’t “young” anymore, even though she looked just as good (if not better) than women ten years younger than her.

And because I was able to charm her and make her feel good, she became attracted to me.

When it comes to women, it really is THAT simple.

But don’t compliment her on her looks. Compliment her on other things, and THEN have that lead to her looks and other things.

For instance, I might start a conversation by saying:

“Excuse me, I know this might sound cheesy, but I have to ask – have you ever had any kind of dance training?”

(Typically, most girls have taken some form of dance class in their lifetime, but even if they haven’t , you can proceed with this opener)

Follow up by saying:

“I just ask because you move so gracefully, like you just naturally know how to move your body. You seem so confident with yourself, it really is noticeable.”

From there, you can take the conversation towards asking her about herself. Then you can stack on stuff like:

“You have an amazing energy about you. It’s like you have a really youthful spirit.”

And…

“I must say, I think you just might be the most attractive woman I’ve seen in a long time. I meet a lot of girls in their 20′s who couldn’t hold a candle to you.”

Saying things like this will really make the older woman you’re talking to feel good, ESPECIALLY when you tell them that younger women can’t compare to them.

The trick here is not to be overly complimentary, otherwise your compliments come off as insincere. You want to be flirty, and sprinkle in your compliments as you go.

Now, simply being complimentary isn’t always the best tactic to take, of course. There are times where a woman will still give you an attitude if she’s extremely attractive and knows she’s in high demand. If this is the case, you need to use the usual methods of approaching her and gaining attraction. But I’ve found in general that this is the way to go when approaching older women.

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The #1 Thing That Women Find Irresistible

So you know that when you meet a woman it’s very important you show her you are different than the average guy. In fact that’s one of your biggest goals is to rise above all the other creepy, timid, boring or just plain average guys she meets on a regular basis. Some guys seem to take the whole “being different” thing a bit too far and try to come up with all kinds of wacky outfits when they go out, or go out of their way to try to convince a woman they are a true original somehow.

Separating yourself from other men is not about wearing a leopard skin cowboy hat when you go out. That’s outdated tricks of a pickup artist and you’re going to end up looking childish. Though there are many things to consider when you first approach a woman for the first time, here is what I think is an extremely important trait you need to show her:

1. Have a passion

Women like men with a passion. More than money or looks actually. Of course some might care about your wallet or want to date a male model, but most women would rather meet a man who has something he cares deeply about and is striving toward. It’s not so much success as it is ambition. In fact most women would admit that a man who has something more important than her is actually very attractive. This is a fact. No woman respects a man who would set aside his purpose or mission for a woman.

So when you meet a woman you need to express your interests to her with enthusiasm. Never be ashamed for what you believe or enjoy. Act as if you believe everyone is as interested in the topic as you are. People cannot help but respect someone who is 100% committed to an idea. Don’t make any excuses for your interests. If you do I call that value-seeking and no woman is attracted to a value-seeking man. The very enthusiasm you have for something is exactly what is going to bring an amazing woman into your life.

Bruce teaches men from all ages and walks of life how to successfully meet and date women. Be sure to sign up for his free crash-course attraction video or check out the Real World Attraction blog for more information.

A Cool Place To Meet Women Most Guys Overlook

I just discovered the best place to meet women and there was practically zero competition. I’m sure by now you have figured out that a sexy woman is not just going to magically appear in your life. The job of meeting her and attracting her is 100% in your hands. The best part about this little idea is that it will also help you become a more social person and meet even more attractive women.

I recently took an improv comedy class and I was blown away by the amount of cute women that go to these things. The classes are a great place for making friends and there is little pressure because everyone is there to learn how to be a better communicator and have fun. It’s a great environment for starting up conversations with the women you meet there.

I found the women there were bubbly, interesting and just just a tad bit crazy. (in a fun way). And the fact that you are the kind of guy who gets out of the house and betters his situation really shows women that you are different than the average Joe. You are pursuing interests and enjoying yourself. This is very attractive to women.

Improv teaches you how to be spontaneous, have a better sense of humor and tell good stories. Story-telling and humor set off women’s attraction wiring like a handful of firecrackers. This is a fact. Where else can you meet women and at the same time polish up your social skills? The answer is nowhere!

The classes are almost always free to try out so there is no reason you shouldn’t give it a shot. Who knows, you just might meet an awesome women to practice your new improv skills with. Nowhere else will you find such a fun environment with little pressure and zero competition.

For more tips on attraction, women and dating, check out Bruce’s free crash course attraction video or you can read more attract women articles at the Real World Attraction blog.

3 Traits That Will Attract Women To You Like a Magnet

Have you ever made a woman cringe? I know I have. Before I studied attraction like a science I had many experiences where my attraction destroying habits literally made a woman make a terrible face and pull away from me entirely. And there’s probably nothing more painful than that look. But it was worth it for me. Because I dug deep and searched out answers within myself and from every resource I could think of to get this whole “women and dating” thing down. I wanted to know what caused that horrible face and never do the things that created it again. I learned a few valuable things in my journey. Here are 3 things you need to know immediately:

1. Learn how to tease women properly. I’m talking about being able to playfully joke with a woman, not be a jerk. The secret is to get her laughing and simultaneously make her wonder whether she has a shot of being with you. It’s about sending her mixed messages while maintaining a fun sense of humor with her. This sort of thing is definitely an art in itself but something you must understand fully.

2. You have to fully understand the Art of Flirting. We as men are not naturally good at flirting. We like straight-forward talk and prefer to communicate like this with everyone we meet. But if you can’t sub-communicate with women in a flirty way then its like you are going to be talking to a brick wall. She will squeak out yes or no answers to your questions and the interaction will go nowhere. The world of attraction lies in her emotions and something you cannot speak directly to. It takes learning a new language. The language of attraction. Also known as flirting.

3. You have to learn how to create the emotion of sexual tension. If you cannot create the emotion of sexual tension with a woman, she won’t care to get to know you beyond just a friend. Sexual tension is created by something I refer to as “perceived roadblocks” that you create and tear down at the right times. This strategy creates a rollercoaster-like series of emotions inside a woman and she will be uncontrollably attracted to you.

These are 3 big characteristics of guys who are naturally good with women. It’s what separates you from the men who bore her and the men who she can’t stop thinking about.

If you want to learn more about how to attract women then check out the free crash course video as well as the Real World Attraction blog

How To Approach A Woman And Ask For Her Phone Number

How to approach a girl and ask for her phone number? This is something every single man wants to know. We run into beautiful women every day at work, school, coffee shop, malls and street. This article will teach you how to approach a girl you are attracted to and get her number.

When you see a girl you find attractive. Make an eye contact and hold it a tad bit longer than usual. Smile and walk up to her.

Start walking right away even if you do not succeed in making an eye contact. It will happen while you walk up to her.

You should approach women as soon as you make an eye contact with them. This makes you look confident and secure, something most women desire in men they date. You can start talking something general. Ask a question or her opinion. You could also go direct by letting her know that you want to get to know her.

If all you want is a phone number walk up to the woman, offer your hand for a handshake, look into her eyes then say something like, hey, just saw you and had to get to know you. Hi I am so and so. Wait for this woman to tell her name. I am usually still holding her hand from the handshake. Slowly let it go at this point. Then continue, I am in a rush right now but I want to get in touch. Whats your number/email?.

Most of the time you will get a girls phone number at this point. There is no reason to get upset even if she does not give you her number. Either way, look into her eyes and give her another handshake if you already let go of her hand. Then say it was nice meeting you and walk away slowly with a smile on your face.

Just because you did not get the number does not mean she did not like you. There could be many reasons why she could not give you her number at the time. But I promise you she will love you for approaching her in this manner even if she cannot express it. Ask any woman and youll get the same answer.

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