Simple But Effective Approaching Girl Tips
October 12, 2009 by Ai Qin Lee
Filed under Dating Sites
There is something about approaching girl groups that can make a guy sweat in all the wrong places. With girl groups being so intimidating, start simply with one girl at a time. Most of us know that a guy who can’t make a simple approach is going to have a difficult time with every other aspect of girls and dating.
Think about why we get so worked up over approaching girls. We are struggling because we are afraid she is going to turn us down. We care enough about whether she likes us back enough that we make ourselves all nervous and then we blow our chances for a smooth intro.
Practicing with girls that you don’t know and don’t care about whether they appreciate your efforts or not. If a girl we really like tells us off and then walks away, it hurts us. If a girl that we really didn’t like much anyway tells us off and walks away we really aren’t all that worried about it. It’s better to make a mistake approaching a girl you don’t really like over making the mistake with one that you do like.
Avoid using cheesy pick up lines when you approach a girl. These are generally a turn off for girls and you’ll end up standing awkwardly alone hoping that there weren’t any witnesses to your personal train wreck. It’s Okay. You are in need of an alternative way to start talking to girls. Don’t worry, you’re not alone.
Compliments on some of the simple, smaller details go over pretty well. If she has on a nice piece of jewelry or has done something interesting to her hair, delivering a nice comment can help break the ice.
As you build up your confidence you will find that you’re ready to graduate from compliments and conversation starters to asking a woman out for coffee or a drink on the spot. As time passes and you realize that approaching girls is just an acquired skill, you will be the guy that other guys ask for advice.