Russian Women Want You
February 21, 2010 by Charles Lamm
Filed under Free Dating
I love Russian women matchmaking sites. Love them.
How did the Soviet Union keep these beauties hidden for so long? How could these FSU countries have so many young, educated, and stunningly attractive women looking for love in the West?
For men, it’s a buyer’s market. Thousands more Russian women are looking for spouse’s abroad than Western men are available. Not that I’m complaining. The girl next door might just be in Moscow or Kiev thanks to the Internet.
Just because a Russian woman is looking for a husband in Europe, America, or Australia does not mean she has low standards. If she looks like a prime catch to you, you can bet every bachelor in her hometown thinks the same way.
Besides the obvious financial security, what does the typical Russian girl look for in a man?
1. Good Manners.
Russian culture is still deep into classical music, fine art, and good manners. Your prospective Russian bride wants to be and expects to be treated as a lady, not a novelty.
Men know what to do to impress their women. We have just fallen out of the habit. Especially if you are coming off a divorce, remember back to when you were dating. Open a car door. Pull out a chair. Bring flowers.
If you visit her home, bring gifts and be humble. Smile – it won’t kill you.
2. Education
A man of the world is what she expects, not a provincial hick in a borrowed suit. Know something about her country. Be able to tell her about yours. Keep up with the news.
In Russia, even a high school graduate has weathered a battery of tough subjects from math to science to music. Art and culture are likely a part of her everyday life. Be open to new experiences.
If you see that you have impressed an intelligent beauty, just marvel at how smart your children will be.
3. Confident.
Confidence comes from within as a result of a lifetime of good habits and good decisions. Show it off with a winning smile and a good sense of humor. Confident does not mean bragging and showing off. Quiet confidence will impress her, and maybe make her your wife.
Expect success. Show her that you have standards too. You expect the woman you marry to be a woman of culture and grace.
4. Kindness.
Be sensitive to the feelings of others, but don’t take perceived slights too seriously. Show kindness, and it will come back to you.
Women everywhere love compliments – and they don’t cost you a dime to give out. Show a mean streak, and she will change her email address and disappear.
Kindness is free. And you usually get kindness in return. Why would you choose any other strategy, especially when you are trying to convince the most beautiful woman you have ever seen to be your wife.
5. Respectful.
Your Russian woman does not need to be bull rushed. The decisions the two of you will make are too important to be rushed. Proceed slowly but deliberately.
No woman wants to feel cheap or used. Save the subject of sex for when you are past the preliminaries. If she is not what you want in a wife, don’t lead her on.
Keep you language clean. I know this is hard for many of us, but foul language shows a lack of class and disrespect for someone you don’t know well.
The goal is to be the woman she wants, and know she is the woman you want. No settling for either party.
To start, I recommend checking out our Woman of the Day blog – Anastasia – join free – or browse our entire DatingDirectoryOnline site for other Russian singles, dating, personals, and matchmaking agencies.