On The LookOut For The Ideal Guy
June 23, 2009 by Alan Bentley
Filed under Dating Sites
Its a womans desire to find the ideal guy. Its that one person who rocks their world and is someone they want to spend the rest of their lives with unconditionally. They have compatible values and beliefs and share similar hobbies and interests. Yet at the same time, they have areas where they differ completely and respect each others differences.
Most women have an idea of the ideal guy for them. They know what they are looking for in a man and set out to find the perfect match. Some of these attributes are a great personality, attractive looks, a good sense of humor, an intellectual, a good communicator and a caring and compassionate person. While all of these traits are subjective, they factor into the definition of a womans perfect man.
Women have a list of attributes that are not very desirable — a guy who is disrespectful, possessive, clingy, jealous, insecure, controlling, rude, overconfident or a player is not welcome. Someone who is just looking for sex is even worse!
Women differ when it comes to describing the ideal guy. Some are looking for the complete opposite of their personality whilst others like someone who complements them. Who do you like? Somebody who is the edgy type, or somebody who is a professional, solid type. This is all part of the fun of dating.
There are lots of different personality and character traits in the world. Some are attractive to you, whilst others are not. Work out what appeals to you when you are looking for a relationship. Certain women are attracted to free-spirited, artistic or athletic characters, whilst the classic romantic is attractive to many. The intellectual, nerdy type may be attractive to you?
Women are generally looking for a good balance of qualities in the ideal guy. Someone who is very confident, yet not cocky, can be a romantic and plan a surprise dinner, someone who is adventurous and spontaneous. All of these are attractive, as is the ability to be considerate, smart and witty.
Most women have a good idea about what they’re looking for when they are searching for a man to be with. Some want to start a family and are looking for a great father for the children, whilst others are not seeking a formal commitment and are just seeking companionship.
Most women would agree that the ideal guy makes them feel unique and special. He is a wonderful and charming guy who does not feel threatened by others. He is not the jealous or spiteful type. Rather, he appreciates his woman and shows this in what he says and does.