Men’s Interest Can Be Difficult To Decipher
May 28, 2009 by Alan Bentley
Filed under Dating Sites
What is a woman to do? Men’s interest ranges from sports car racing to fashion and entertainment, so how does a woman know that, when she meets a guy, they would be a good match as a couple? Truthfully, it comes down to being flexible — embracing another person’s interests, compromising and recognizing differences.
When it comes to men’s interest in women, there is no shortage of variety. Some men like a woman who is reserved and quiet, whilst others like outgoing, outdoor types. Guys will immediately identify whether a woman is “marriage material” or whether they just wish to have a good time! It can be almost impossible for a woman to figure this out, as there are so many qualities that factor into a guy’s ideal.
One thing that all men agree is a top quality in a woman is attitude. They look for women who are pleasant, have a positive outlook and a great sense of humor.
It is a common misperception that a guy is just looking for a pretty face. Although a woman’s appearance may matter to some guys, nothing could be further from the truth. The majority of men look for a woman who is nurturing, caring, most sincere and, above all, kindhearted.
Its only natural that men are looking for a lover, but they are also looking for a woman who will be their best friend. Just like women, they seek companionship and support. They need someone who values their opinion and respects them for who they are. They look for a woman who truly listens to what they are saying and provides positive and encouraging feedback.
Human nature dictates that men’s interest starts to wane once they’ve found their ideal love. Many maintain that it’s the thrill of the chase that gives the most excitement. However, this does not mean that the man is not ready for commitment. Rather it can mean that the relationship has become routine. Plan some surprises, intimacy outside the bedroom and generally keep your guy on his toes!
Seeking confidence and stability in a lifelong partner, men’s interest in women goes beyond the surface. Sometimes they want to feel like they are the protector, but they also want their partner to find them irresistible. Guys are quirky! Don’t read too much into it — as the book says — men are from Mars, women are from Venus!
Mens interest in women takes a little longer to figure out. When things seem to be going fine in a relationship, its common for men to pull back. Its a sign for women to keep their distance and take it slow. Men spook easily in relationships, especially if they feel they are moving too fast. Remember, men like the chase, so theres no need to rush the relationship.