Making Sure She Calls You Back, Part 2
April 14, 2009 by Joseph Matthews
Filed under Dating Tips
In the first part of this article I showed you WHY a woman might not call you back. In this part, I show you how to fix that!
First things first, you need to make sure you get her REAL number to begin with.
Girls get asked for their number so often by guys, that many women have taken up the practice of giving out fake numbers. So when you ask for her number, you want to be sure she’s actually interested enough to give you the real deal.
If the girl is not interested, don’t bother asking for her number. Instead, ask for something a little less personal, like her email address or myspace page.
If she is interested, try this trick – ask for her phone, and then call yourself with it so that her number is in your phone, then save that number. This way, you know for a FACT you have her actual phone number.
(And while your at it, you can actually save your number in her phone so she knows its you when you call. This is important because lots of people don’t pick up unknown numbers!)
So now that you have the phone number, your next order of business is to give her a REASON to call you back.
A lot of times guys just leave messages like “Hey, it’s Tim from the coffee shop. Call me back.”
Instead, try and give her an URGENT reason as to why she’d want to call you back. Saying something as simple as:
“Hey, it’s Mike from the other night. You’re not going to believe what I’m watching right now, its going to crack you up. Call me back!”
Creating an “open” conversation loop and some type of curiosity will help encourage a girl to call you back, because naturally, she’ll want to find out what it was that you thought she’d find amusing.
This is just one example – there are lots of different ways for you to create curiosity over the phone. You can even go so far as to recall a conversation you had when you first met, so that she’ll remember the feelings she experienced when she was around you.
But most of all – do NOT get frustrated if you don’t hear back from her right away! Girls get busy, so you need to change tactics.
Try texting her instead of calling. Ask when she will be available to talk. It’s VERY rare that a woman won’t have time for a small text reply.
After a bit of practice with the techniques above, you’ll find that getting her to call you back is actually a really easy thing to do.