Looking Sharp: How To Dress To Impress Women
March 12, 2009 by Joseph Matthews
Filed under Dating Tips
As a guy, for years I didn’t put much thought into the clothing I put on myself.
Most of us are worried about what the item feels like, or smells like, rather than how it looks on us.
Sure, we try and look nice when we go out to bars and clubs. Usually our wardrobe in these situations consist of a nice pair of jeans, some black shoes, and a button-up dress shirt.
And when we’re not in a bar or club, we tend to dress in what’s comfortable – which means ratty, beat-up jeans and that AC/DC shirt from high school.
What men don’t understand, is that when it comes to making an impression on women, what you wear definitely counts! And it’s not just what type of shirt you have on either, it’s all your accessories too – the belt, the shoes, the watch, etc.
Realize that women spend a LOT of time and energy to look good. They are practically raised to be aware of fashion, from playing with their Barbi dolls as little girls, to helping their best friend get married, they are conditioned to the intricacies of what to wear.
So though us guys may not care what type of shoes we wear, girls – who spend lots of time and money on finding shoes to go with certain outfits – will.
Remember – when you go out, you’re not dressing for yourself. You’re dressing for the women you want to attract!
So here are a few rules that will help you look your best, no matter where you find yourself.
1. Always go a step further than the other guys.
Generally guys just don’t care about what they wear. You should, however. If you dress well for any situation, be it a night club or a walk in the park, you will allow yourself an upper hand. You will appear far more confident, successful, and most importantly, more attractive than the other guys out there.
2. Pay attention to your accessories.
Invest in some nice shoes, a good belt, a nice watch, maybe even some light jewelry. Girls definitely notice the little things. Just having a great pair of shoes will make you more noticable than 90% of the other men out there.
3. Stand out.
Fashion is more about looking good, it’s a personal expression of who you are. When you dress well, but also take care to dress different from everyone else, you will get much more attention. For instance, if everyone is wearing black, wear white, and vice versa. If every guy in the club is wearing jeans and a button-up shirt, wear khakis and a dress shirt with a blazer. The more you allow yourself to stand out from the crowd, the easier it is to meet women.
4. Look as good as you can, as often as you can.
You should try and look your best at all times, not just on a Friday night when you are out. You can meet attractive women anywhere and anytime, so by dressing well, you’ll be prepared. Now while you don’t want to wear your clubbing clothes out for a jog, you should still pay attention to details and wear the appropriate attire.
Dress well, and it will improve not only your dating, but most areas of your life. It will certainly cut down your chance of failure with women. You communicate to the world who you are by how you dress – the clothes make the man.
Comments
One Response to “Looking Sharp: How To Dress To Impress Women”Trackbacks
Check out what others are saying about this post...[...] Read the original here: Looking Sharp: How To Dress To Impress Women | Tell H [...]