Long Distance Relationships And How To Succeed With Them
November 2, 2009 by Payo Hernandez
Filed under Dating Sites
There are many instances of long distance relationships being successful especially with the rise in online dating however you must have realistic plans to be together and a time frame too.
It’s usually only when the future is not clear and nothing is planned that you can start to feel depressed and insecure. Kind of like you are wasting your time on something which will never happen.
The plans you make while in a long distance relationship should be realistic, honest and 100% agreed upon by both of you, after all, it’s likely that neither one of you will want to continue in a relationship where Skype, MSN, telephone calls and email are your only sources of contact over a long period.
So in summary you want your plans to be agreed on by both, they should be realistic and within a time frame which can be achieved. It’s extremely important.
At times your faith in the situation will be tested especially during arguments. You’ll have to rely on the trust and hope you have in each other to get through it. Hope is very powerful.
You’ll get to know each other in a different way during a long distance relationship. This is due to the fact that most of your communication will be done online with emails, chat, phone calls ECT and this can be an advantage as it allows you to build a deeper foundation before being together full time.
Since 90% of all communication is non verbal however there really no substitute for actually spending time with each other in real life. You could find that you can only go so far with online contact before you’re no longer getting any more from it.
If you sense that something special is there then don’t let distance prevent you from trying the relationship, it can and does work for others all the time. Plus no one wants to spend their life wondering ‘what if’ and missing out on what could have been wonderful.
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