I Still Love My Ex, What to Do?
March 9, 2009 by Dan S.C. Reynolds
Filed under Dating Tips
If you realize you’re thinking, “I still love my ex”, you must figure out what to do next. It’s natural to still have feelings. You had something special and shared special times when you were together. Those feelings cannot be broken easily. Do those feelings mean that you want to get your love back? What do your thoughts about her mean?
When someone is thinking he loves her ex, it’s a good sign that means there was love in first place. That love is something special that can’t be taken away. There are so many memories and good feelings about the past relationship.
Just because there is love still lingering doesn’t mean that you are bound to get back together or that it should even happen. You do need to be asking yourself, “I still love my ex, but do I want my ex back?” If you look at it closely and with a chance to step back and ponder it, you will be more able to see if the two of you are meant to be together.
If you have been able to figure out that your statement, “I still love my ex” is due to just a remaining fondness then don’t feel any need to push it in one direction or another. Just go with the flow. What will happen is that the two of you will either drift away or you will remain friends for a long time. That could be something special on it’s own and something few have. Good friends are hard to find.
If, by saying, “I still love my ex”, you mean that you want to get back together with them then you have to be willing to do some work. You need to first see if the other person has an interest in getting back together with you. This will happen naturally, like with the above advice. Just don’t push it one way or the other and you will tell if the feeling is mutual. When the two of you decide that you want to try again, be ready to work.
No matter what kind of relationship you had, look for relationship advice from someone qualified to give advice, someone who can help you build a stronger relationship than before. You made mistakes in the past and you were not able to handle then on your own.
If you had counseling before, find someone new to help you. You need a fresh start.
If you find yourself saying “Help! I still love my ex!” there isn’t any need to panic. Just let things take their course naturally at first and then seek help to get it on the right path. The momentum you two make on your own will make the guidance easier. Before you know it, you won’t be saying, “I love my ex,” but you will be saying “I’m in love!
Your blog is really nice it acts just like work of an adviser I really like this and good reminder about to give a break in relationship. This help me lot to get back my ex girlfriend. Thanks for all these advices
By the way, Great site.