How To Handle Other Alpha Males, Part 1
April 7, 2009 by Joseph Matthews
Filed under Dating Tips
One of the most challenging aspects of getting a girl interested in you is dealing with the competition you’ll get from other guys.
Let’s face it – if the girl is somewhat attractive, chances are that you’re not the only guy striving for her affections.
And the reality is – some guys just can’t HANDLE the idea of competition!
As soon as they see another guy talking to the girl they like, if he’s in any way better looking than they are, they’ll just GIVE UP.
Seriously. They will step aside and give the other guy all the time he needs to move in on their girl.
Sometimes, the guy will directly challenge the other guy in a fit of jealousy.
The latter is WAY worse, as it will show just how insecure that guy is if he does it.
So what’s a guy to do?
Well, the first thing is to realize that there is NO SUCH THING as competition from other men.
This might sound strange to you, but hear me out…
You guys aren’t in a race for a gold metal here. When it comes to affections of the heart, there are no true winners. It is possible for a girl to be attracted to more than one man at the same time.
So in that sense, even if a new guy shows up, you’re not completely out in the cold.
Regardless, you will need to keep some of that focus on you, otherwise you won’t be able to create any attraction.
I’ll show you how to come out on top in this situation in part two of this article.