How To Get A Girlfriend That Is Right For You
August 20, 2009 by Adela Thomas
Filed under Dating Tips
How to get a girlfriend – If you’re like most guys, you’re probably wondering how to get a girlfriend? It actually can be easier then you are making it.
The very first thing you need to look for is to find a girl that is interested in you. You cant find a girlfriend who isnt interested in you, at least if you want a long lasting relationship. Certainly you can find a girl you are interested in instead, but it is much easier, if you find a girl that is already interested in you. Of course to do this, you must first be interesting. If you are not interesting, you need to learn how to be interesting. Join a toastmasters club and practice speaking in front of people, or listen to great story tellers, just for a few examples. You might also try to adventure into trying a standup act at a random amateur night just for fun. Not only will you get to hear others tell funny stories, but also you will have a chance to practice on your own. Listen to magicians who often times are very good at telling stories as a good magician uses stories as part of the illusion. Its simple enough, learn to be interesting, and women will be interested. It’s not rocket science.
Once you have learned to be more interesting, now you need to be courageous and meet lots of girls. It is easier if you consider this practice, and just approach as many girls as you can, rather than be concerned with whom specifically. If you must, make up a fake name at some busy mall and pretend you are someone else. You can start by going to different places. Try libraries, book stores, rock concerts, malls, shopping centers, after school activities, try joining a meet up group at meetup.com and finding a woman who has a common interest by looking for groups that you are interested in.
Try to be interested in lots of things. Even if you arent, you should be willing to try anything. Become a “yes” man, and if you arent sure what that means, theres a movie called Yes man that you can watch staring Jim Carey. Say yes to a lot more of things, and you will find some things that you like. The more things you try out the better, as you can gain more insight into what other people like and why.
Some places will be better than others for different people. Learn to be a little bit picky, but never overly picky. If you learn to try new things, but be selective, but still regularly try new opportunities, you will find yourself doing just fine.
The more things you try, the more you will naturally have to talk about, and the more interesting you will seem. Use this very simple tip, and you will be interesting. Of course, having girls interested in you is just a start on how to get a girlfriend.