How To Flirt Successfully
February 21, 2010 by Benjamin West
Filed under Free Dating
Many people have an ability to flirt instinctively, while others struggle awkwardly with it. Men are notoriously bad at understanding ‘signals’ from women, while women often don’t understand the signals from men. This are ways to tell whether someone is flirting with you:
Do they look at your eyes and lips? It could be because they want to kiss you. Do they stand straighter when they see you? When they look at you, do their pupils widen? Is their face lit up by a smile when they lay eyes on you? Does the person invent reasons to make physical contact, even slight contact, like brushing up against your arm? If female, is the subject licking her lips or fiddling with her hair?
Let us go over some do’s and donts for flirting. Maintain good personal hygiene always. Your optimal attempts will stay at ground zero without it. Don’t expect a serious relationship when you are in it. Most flirting is done just for fun, and most flirting will not result in anything serious. Stand up straight. Better posture makes you more attractive and pulls the entire pot belly while pushing the chest forward.
Relax and be happy. If you are not happy then you won’t be attractive. You should never shy away from those you like. On the contrary you should be bold enough to directly look at them. Don’t be afraid to let your eyes wander over their body but keep your attention mostly on their face. Show off a happy face. This is one of the most desirable things you can perform. If you’re a woman, feel free to play with your hair or lick your lips.
Find excuses to touch them in small ways. You might find a piece of fluff on their clothes or an eyelash on their face; remove it for them. Using these excuses too many times in one date could drive the object of your desire away from you.
Removing an eyelash from a woman’s face will increase the intimacy with a man, when she makes a wish and blows her eyelash away. Compliment the object of your affections. Find something nice to say. Her beautiful hair and eyes and how they dress.
Try to make a connection on multiple levels. Find out whether you enjoy the same books, music, films, hobbies, sense of humor, etc. Is there anything that you perhaps have always craved about trying? You should always Share your goals. Ultimately, have fun! Always remember fun is the basis of all flirting.
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