How to Fix it / How To Fix Your New Partner’s Bad Kissing
August 28, 2009 by New Partner a Bad Kisser? How to Fix it
Filed under Dating Sites
Now, there’s nothing in the whole world that can replace sex for a true feeling of mind and body intimacy. But as wonderful as sex is, there’s something incomparably special about a kiss. With a kiss, you can communicate passion and emotion in a way you can with nothing else in your arsenal. For most people it’s one of the most important parts of a physical romantic relationship.
At least it is when your partner does it well. Since no one writes “great person, terrible kisser” on their internet dating profile, kissing ability is kind of a wait and see thing. Some of the best looking guys I’ve dated have been, to put it mildly, horrible kissers!
The good news is that bad kissing can be fixed! Like a lot of things in life, some people have just never learned how to do it right. If the guy or gal you’re dating hasn’t quite got the right lip-lock technique, there’s no need to dump and run. Keep reading for some fix up tips.
Where Bad Kissers Go Wrong
Most bad kissers make the same mistakes. The most common by far is too much tongue. Blame the movies they’ve watched or the friends they’ve talked to. Kissing someone like this is doing battle with your tongues; full force. But let’s face it; having someone stick their tongue down your throat is never sexy.
What To Do
Provided you never want to date this person again, feel free to tell them their technique sucks (pun intended!). Otherwise you’re best to avoid mentioning it altogether. Why? Because no matter how nicely and gently to tell them, they’re going to be embarrassed in a big way. You’re going to have to take the lead on this, without ever uttering a word.
In order to be able to teach somebody to kiss better, you’ve first go to get them interested in the kiss in the first place. Then, when it’s obvious they’re into it, pull away slightly and force them to slow down. Don’t let them feel rejected. Simply change the pace in order to break up the monotony of the kiss and to help you introduce new elements.
Get Luke to put away his light saber. If your kissing partner seems to really want to play tongue battle, you need to disengage. Change the focus to the lips and change the pace and style of the kiss.
Once the tongue truce has been established, it’s time to introduce your smooching other half to more kissing options. Try alternating between kissing the top and bottom lips. Sucking the bottom lip lightly is also a pleaser as is gently using your teeth. Hopefully your date will enjoy the new sensations and it will spark some creativity of their own.
When your partner is into the swing of trying these new techniques, fall back and let them take control. Given a bit of time, they should discover the pleasure that comes from these new techniques and confidence in their new kissing ability. All without knowing that you had a hand in it (so to speak).
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