Get Ex Back With A Power Apology
April 22, 2009 by Johnnie S Laney
Filed under Dating Sites
Most of us never really learned much about how to apologize. We all know how to say “I’m sorry” of course. But beyond that, we don’t know what to do or say to seek forgiveness. When you wronged your mate and want to get your ex back, just saying I’m sorry won’t cut it.
There are, however, other levels of apologizing. There are much more impactful ways of saying Im sorry. When your relationship has ended because you did something wrong and your ex kicked you out, you will likely need to make a power apology.
A power apology can get your ex from anger to forgiveness sometimes in minutes when done correctly. Here are some of the important steps involved in making an apology that can get your ex back:
The very first step is to admit to what you did wrong. Be an adult. Don’t give a bunch of lame excuses like “it didn’t mean anything!” When you own up to what you did wrong, your ex can begin to take your apology seriously.
The second thing is to mirror their hurt feelings. You say something like “Hon, I know I made you feel betrayed and unloved and very say by cheating on you…” This is a very powerful form of emotional intelligence. When you mirror their hurt feelings, they will feel like you really do understand the impact of your actions.
The third step is to let them vent. Now you let them tell you how they feel about what you did wrong. You dont argue, you dont defend yourself, you let them get their angry and hurt feelings off their chest. Your only job here is to make them feel heard and understood.
Now you are making a powerful apology! You are being an adult, taking responsibility for what you did, mirroring their feelings, and letting them vent. This is crucial to helping your ex release and let go of their negative feelings, which they have to do before they can truly forgive you.
Now that you have done these things first, you can now say I’m sorry. Rather than rush in with I’m sorry, if you wait til after you’ve followed the three prior steps your apology will be much more likely to be accepted.
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