Dealing With Your Man’s Bad Hairstyle
June 5, 2010 by Janna Reed
Filed under Free Dating
Some guys have almost everything that a girl could want – a great body, a nice personality, and a handsome look. Yet some of these guys still have problems in one area – hair. You might love everything about your guy, but if his hair is a turn-off, it can cause big problems.
If you find yourself with a guy like this, you’ll have to tread carefully if you plan on telling him that he needs to change his haircut. Guys can be very sensitive about their hair, and just coming out and saying that a guy’s hair is ugly is sure to put a damper on the relationship. Here are some tactful ways to improve your guy’s hairstyle, no matter what he has on top of his head.
Hair Loss – This is probably the most common hair problem that men face. Thinning hair just isn’t attractive to many women, so men invest millions of dollars every year in treatments such as pills, lotions, and prescription drugs.
If your guy is losing his hair, don’t bother pointing it out to him – it’s a given that he already knows and is self-conscious about it. If his hair loss is an issue for you, there really isn’t much you can do about it. His hair will most likely continue to fall out as he ages, so if it’s a big problem for you, you should consider moving on to a different relationship if you can’t accept it.
Just Got Out of Bed Look: If your man’s hair looks disheveled every time you see him, there are two possibilities: he either doesn’t know any better or he’s doing it on purpose. Some guys can pull off this look, but on most guys trying it will just look unkempt. If your guy can’t make it work, let him know gently that it isn’t working for him.
The Frizz – While guys have shorter hair in general, we still have a lot of the same problems that women do. It’s also harder to convince us that it’s worth spending time and money to fix the messes on our heads.
If you’re dating a metrosexual guy he’s probably aware of the usefulness of hair products; otherwise, you may have to teach him about these products yourself. You can casually mention that a little gel could help straighten out his look, and show him how to choose one specifically designed to tame his frizzy hair.
The Shaved Look – Some guys choose to shave their heads because of their thinning hair, while others just think it looks cool. If your man doesn’t look good with a buzz-cut or a totally shaved head, try suggesting that he should grow it out a little.
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