Tricks and Techniques in Understanding A Woman’s Body Language
March 10, 2010 by George Andrews
Filed under Free Dating
When you go on a night out with your buddies – it could be that you are simply out to have a good time. But if you are single and the situation presents itself that there’s a possibility for you to hook up with a beautiful woman, why pass up the chance? Another scenario is when it is your specific purpose to meet members of the opposite sex and perhaps get an invitation by the end of the night. No matter which of these categories you fall under, there are certain skills that you need to learn so that you can unleash the Casanova in you.
Check out the latest clubs and bars. This is precisely where women go to hand out with their girl friends, meet men and simply have a good time. This is a good a place as any to discover the inner Lothario or Casanova in you – and practice your dating skills. If you feel like you have yet to master the art of reading the most subtle hints which will tell you if a woman is interested in you or not – then it is high time to harness your body language reading skills.
Since we are talking about harnessing your dating skills here, the one thing that you need to watch out for are the non-verbal clues as to whether she is interested in you or not. It’s time to ditch those cheesy pick-up lines and look for ways to be really interesting and leave a lasting impression.
Once you have your eyes on your target, you can use your dating skills and practicing your charm. There is no worse scenario than having a woman walk out on you once you approach her – probably because of how you appear or what you said. This is precisely the reason why you need to learn about dating psychology 101 – which is all about understanding her body language.
Casanova Tactics on How to Understand Her Body Language
If you would like to bring out the Casanova in you and learn how to actually understand a woman’s language, there are non-verbal cues that you need to look for. More often than not, women use subtle cues to lure men into their ‘trap’ – which pretty much means that they are interested. To help you out, here is a quick list of some non-verbal cues that Casanovas like you need to watch out for:
Leaning over – “It’s okay for you to talk to me”. When a woman leans over you when she is trying to make a point or when listening to what you have to say – especially if it is not that crowded in the bar – it means that she is comfortable enough for you to prolong the conversation. This is the time that you can use your Casanova skills and charm the heck out of her.
She establishes eye contact. Another sign that you have managed to capture a woman’s attention is when she establishes eye contact and holds your gaze for more than five seconds. That is a sure sign that she would agree to dating you – and if you are lucky enough – she might even invite you to her place by the end of the night.
Combined body language and subtle hints – “You can invite me for a nightcap.” Some men are simply lucky in this department. If she flirts with you right back, initiates physical contact and reacts positively to your verbal and physical overtures, then that is a sign that she is thinking along the lines of tangling the sheets with you.
So what are you waiting for? If you feel that you have used enough of your Casanova charm and dating skills to get her to agree and go out with you or go home with you by the end of the night – there is absolutely no reason why you should say no to the invitation, is there? Just remember to pick up on her subtle hints, listen attentively to what her actions and words are trying to say – and you should be all set in mastering the art of reading a woman’s body language. After that, you can either ask her to go out with you sometime, or expect her to say yes to your invitation for a nightcap.
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Dating Strategy: Revealing the Top Things which Turn Women Off
March 6, 2010 by George Andrews
Filed under Dating Tips
There are a lot of possibilities when it comes to why men would find themselves embroiled in the middle of the dating scene. You could have gone from a previous relationship and you’re trying to get back in the game, so to speak. Or, you could be a typical single guy who’s not ready to commit yet so you’re playing the field. No matter which of these categories you fall under, it is important to know which factors turn women off.
Basically, you should be aware of what it is that turns women off. For the most part, it’s the initial impression that you will make to a woman that will be your complete downfall. If you fail to attract her the first time, there’s very little chance that she will take a second glance at you when you approach her because she hardly thinks that you’re a casanova. You should also make sure not to sound too full of yourself, appear too stuffy with your behavior, or leave the impression that you’re looking for a quick lay by the end of the night.
Approaching them while you’re a bit too drunk. This is a mortal sin as far as women are concerned. If you have a baby sister, how do you think you will feel when she gets approached by some random guy who slurs his words and stinks of whisky breath? More than just the safety issue, it’s that feeling of being stalked by a drunk stranger which is the last experience that you would want to give to a woman – especially if she’s hot. [I:http://www.tellh.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/GeorgeAndrews0.jpg]
What you need to do is lay off the alcohol. Sure, you may be in a bar setting and you are nursing a bottle of beer because you’re out to have fun. But this does not mean that you need to gather all your courage from alcohol. A couple of drinks is probably okay, but make sure that it’s only enough to make you loosen up. Never approach a woman when you already reek of alcohol, or if you’re already slurring your words or can’t walk straight.
The sweaty and not-so-pleasantly-smelling guy. Yes, bars are crowded and you need to showcase your moves if you want to meet and start dating a good-looking woman in a club or bar. But just because it’s hot and crowded doesn’t mean that you should allow your clothes to stick to your skin too much – or spray on too much cologne that you’d end up with a too overpowering smell by the end of the night. So lay off on the cologne and make sure to wear clothes that will keep you cool despite all the dancing.
The sloppy dresser. You may not have given this too much of a thought – but when you see a woman looking all nice, hot and primped up when going out with their girlfriends, they looked like that because they exerted the effort. As a guy, you need to return the favor and spend some time grooming yourself, too – and actually spending some time to think about what you’re going to wear. If you do your best to look good and not be the sloppy dresser who turns women off, then you’ll have better chances of having a hottie leave the bar with you at the end of the night.
Lastly – and this is one of the most important parts – work on your conversational skills. Ditch the cheesy pick up lines, it sometimes pays off to use a more straightforward approach. Let the inner casanova in you shine by sharpening up your women attraction skills. When you finally get a woman talking, don’t make it all about yourself and keep the conversation light. Be a bit playful and make sure not to leave the impression that you’re simply out to have someone to go home with by the end of the night.
All in all, learning about the top mistakes that you should avoid when it comes to attraction and dating should be the secret of your success with women. If you want to be in on what more of these techniques are, check out the tips that we will be dishing out on our website. Your level of success will leave more women wanting more of you – so check out our site now at http://casanovasystem.org !
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