Everything Not To Do In Order To Attract Women

So many men are looking for the magic bullet to help them seduce the women they want. They want it now and they want it fast. Well, this is not so easy as some people might present it to you. In fact, we might spend so much time trying to figure this is out that we miss up on some wonderful opportunities.

Now I am going to explain you my rules. This method is a “really” easy way to attract women which took me time to develop.

It’s easiest to get women attract women when you have some girl-friends which are going to introduce them to you. Then it’s much easier to attract women than using other complicated ways. You just focus on meeting more and more females and make them friends.

While you are meeting more and more female friends, you become more used to being around women. Female friends help you with a lot of aspects of yourself that you can help fix. So first get a lot of girl-friends.

Now we get to the part where you work on yourself so that you better yourself. Don’t be the average boring guy that does the same thing everyone does. Bring some joy and difference to your life. Make a new hobby, get a new job maybe. Stop the same old routine of work, beer, video games! Get out there and experience new things in life.

When you finally get a life, you will find that women respond to you better. It’s interesting and intriguing to a woman when you have a style of life that you love and that is interesting.

I just gave you two of my best advice on what to do. Now I’ll tell what not to do.

Get rid of that mentality that you have to “pick and run game on women”. You will come off as a needy wolf if you do this. You can just talk normally to them, and just be interesting in an attractive way. After some time of this, eventually, some of these women will show interest in you, and that’s when you can “seduce” them.

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Shyness Kills Nice Guys With Women

I was talking to a friend of mine who sees himself as a “nice guy”, and he had a bit of a confusion about women, nice guys and confidence.

He basically told me “You know, I get this whole thing about confidence, is that really why women don’t like nice guys?”

My answer to him? Yes of course! A very firm and solid yes!

It is all about the shyness. I have a really shocking revelation to you. Women are literally blind to male shyness. I mean between two guys who are identical, except one is shy, the shy one will get as much as ten times worse results with women.

1) Women don’t see shyness in men

The guys online who claim that women hate shy guys completely misinterpret things. Its not that women hate shy guys… Its that women don’t even know guys can be shy or have issues or fear.

When you are shy, you actually end up acting in ways she misinterprets as being arrogant, jerk-like and cold. She literally doesn’t know its possible for a man to be shy around her. She’s too busy worrying about her own insecurities. So when you don’t ask her out due to shyness, she blames herself, never even assuming you might be shy.

2) All dating requires both parties to play the courtship ritual

Yes, just like animals, we too have a mating ritual. This ritual requires that males do certain things, and women do others. Shyness screws up this ritual on both sides, but mostly the male side.

This ritual presumes that males show sexual interest in females. Nice guys however don’t do this due to shyness or lack of confidence.

Nice guys don’t show direct, sexual interest in women, and they tend not to initiate the romantic process or bring it forward.

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