6 Secrets To Make A Date And Not Get Turned Down
February 8, 2009 by Tell H
Filed under Dating Tips
Now I suppose you’ve a loved one that you want to make a date with, don’t be worried, make a date is not as difficult as you think, here are 6 secrets you should know to make a successful date, especially if this is your first date.
1) The main secret here is to dress your offer up like it’s NOT A FORMAL DATE. To you, the first date is probably a ‘see how it goes thing, or a scoring opportunity’. A girl sees it very differently. To HER a first date is, hopefully, the start of a long relationship. So if you’re TOO SERIOUS – like most men are – she’ll worry and worry about whether she’s doing the right thing and probably end up turning you down.
2) So – ask her out – but just make it sound like an ordinary, everyday occurrence. Make it sound like you’ve got an exciting social life already (whether or not that’s true) and just ask her if she’d like to join in.
3) Say you just happen to be going to the pub (or whatever)
tomorrow…. and would she like to come?
Or, a slightly better version of this
4) Say you and some friends always go nightclubbing (or whatever) on a Saturday night and would she like to come?…. (Your friends can always drop out later)
5) Say you’ve already got a firm date planned but have been let down. Will she help you out?
6) Say ‘you’ll go if she does ‘. This encourages her to accept by making her feel bad if you miss something.
Last thing you should keep in mind is finding out something she’d like to do. Just bring it up conversation before without ever suggesting it might be a date. Then offer to go with her. Hopefully she’ll jump at the chance or at the least be too nice to turn you down!
Keep things in mind and you will make a successful first date with your loved one. Oh, another thing you should know is, you don’t need to always be a gentleman, some girls like crazy men!