3 Traits That Will Attract Women To You Like a Magnet
December 25, 2009 by Bruce Elwin
Filed under Free Dating
Have you ever made a woman cringe? I know I have. Before I studied attraction like a science I had many experiences where my attraction destroying habits literally made a woman make a terrible face and pull away from me entirely. And there’s probably nothing more painful than that look. But it was worth it for me. Because I dug deep and searched out answers within myself and from every resource I could think of to get this whole “women and dating” thing down. I wanted to know what caused that horrible face and never do the things that created it again. I learned a few valuable things in my journey. Here are 3 things you need to know immediately:
1. Learn how to tease women properly. I’m talking about being able to playfully joke with a woman, not be a jerk. The secret is to get her laughing and simultaneously make her wonder whether she has a shot of being with you. It’s about sending her mixed messages while maintaining a fun sense of humor with her. This sort of thing is definitely an art in itself but something you must understand fully.
2. You have to fully understand the Art of Flirting. We as men are not naturally good at flirting. We like straight-forward talk and prefer to communicate like this with everyone we meet. But if you can’t sub-communicate with women in a flirty way then its like you are going to be talking to a brick wall. She will squeak out yes or no answers to your questions and the interaction will go nowhere. The world of attraction lies in her emotions and something you cannot speak directly to. It takes learning a new language. The language of attraction. Also known as flirting.
3. You have to learn how to create the emotion of sexual tension. If you cannot create the emotion of sexual tension with a woman, she won’t care to get to know you beyond just a friend. Sexual tension is created by something I refer to as “perceived roadblocks” that you create and tear down at the right times. This strategy creates a rollercoaster-like series of emotions inside a woman and she will be uncontrollably attracted to you.
These are 3 big characteristics of guys who are naturally good with women. It’s what separates you from the men who bore her and the men who she can’t stop thinking about.
If you want to learn more about how to attract women then check out the free crash course video as well as the Real World Attraction blog